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Back, Back, Forth and Forth *muddledrayne* |
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So after the ghosting incident, I have tried very hard to put him behind me. His exit has opened me up to potential new suitors, play partners what have you. There has been a flurry of interest. I have gone on dates, met for coffee and even played. All of this should make me feel better. And it does. But. In typical rayne fashion, I am taking two steps forward, and one step back. Perhaps I am just melancholy today, but I can’t help thinking. All these other men “want” me. Why doesn’t he?
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*Takes you by your hand and smacks it hard* Don't do that! Good riddance. There's something out there, something better. You'll find it. Have faith. Huggs, ~M "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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I agree with Aliljaded. "One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"
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Softrayne, I agree with Aliljaded, There is something better out there for you, Be patient and have faith 
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*Takes you over my knee, exposes and smacks your round firm bottom hard* (Desperate situations call for desperate measures). Fixation addles the brain, rayne. That grass on the other side of the fence isn't really any greener. It's an illusion. Stop staring at it! You've got the moon. Do you really need a ring around it?
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glad you’re having fun unfortunately when the majority wants you often times the one you want most doesn’t want you or has other obligations preventing it...I’m sure you’ll find something you can put your heart into!
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Why do we always remember the ones that hurt us ?. Just human nature i expect, It is better to move on and not fall for the same tricks again ( but i know you are smarted than that ) As everyone keeps saying you will soon find the right person for you, so keep a smile on your beautiful face and love in your heart
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Alijaded is right. If he ghosted you, he wasn't worth your time then and definitely not now. Classless, gutless move by a supposed dominant. Is that what you want to pine over?
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I've been thru that ghosting and even went back for a second bite. Just remember you are a beautiful, worthy woman and the right one will find you. The word for this is.......patience 
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 Oh luv, this is not about you. I know it is not hard to think in those terms, but his action/reaction is about him, not you. You can be the most perfect you you can be, and for some it is not enough or not right. That is on them. I have felt that too recently, but have to remember, I am quite the catch and those who choose to walk away, do so to their own loss. I believe that is the same with those who willingly walk away from you.  Ars longa, vita brevis - Art is long, life is short  
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8/15/2022 7:20 am |
The blog thread "Broken" is for you.
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As one big, good, and sensible girl to another big, good and sensible girl, I won't say what others said, though I do agree with all of them, the truth is - he stopped wanting you if he ever was because he thought there was someone better... and that has absolutely nothing to do with you. It would be the same with any other girl. This is in a nutshell. I could go on, and on...but better not to. I know that there will come the day, very soon, when you will be in peace with yourself and will close this story forever. Be good and patient with yourself, dear Rayne.
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you'll find the right guy!
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8/16/2022 6:41 am |
When the opportunity arises seek the moment and don't let go. And remember "there is always a bigger fish." 
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Dear beautiful, sexy Rayne, I agree with others comments on this situation, but hey, you already knew I would. YOU are very SPECIAL dear girl, and that fuckwit will never get the chance to see just how SPECIAL you are. Please push him into the dustbin of life and live yours like the world is your oyster. YOU have everything going for you and there are many who want to be part of your life.
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"Once more into the breach. . . And gentlemen in England now a-bed Shall think themselves accursed they were not here, And hold their manhoods cheap whiles any speaks That fought with us upon Saint Crispin's day."
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softrayne replies on 8/21/2022 2:10 pm: Ngl, that was a little swoon inducing. "Well, maybe I overshot a little bit, because i was aiming for just enough to keep you from walking out on me."  bonus points for knowing the flick...
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When the opportunity arises seek the moment and don't let go. And remember "there is always a bigger fish."
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