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Of Sadists and Newbies i am curious. A lot of the profiles, i read and seem attracted to, as well as some of my watched blogs, are of Doms that classify themselves as Sensual Sadists. While i understand the term in a general fashion, i still hesitate to contact These individuals due to my inexperience. So my question is this...how do Sadists bring along new submissives?, OR do they just prefer to play with experienced ones, pain puppies if Y/you will? i, while looking forward to walking that pain/pleasure line....know enough to say that pain for pains sake is not my bag baby. For those Dominants who enjoying giving one their first taste, if You will...do You start out slowly? gradually over a period of time increasing the level of pain as she grows used to it?, and if so.....if the infliction of pain is what gives You pleasure...how satisfying is such a scene to You? If Your limits are so far beyond my limits? i realize that prior discussion is paramount, but in the heat of the moment? i suppose each Dom is different, and must be respected as such. i may just go for it anyway........hoping the deep end isn't to deep. |
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7/24/2006 2:34 pm |
I see myself as responding to my subs response to the pain, rather than the actual giving. So, for me it would be a gradual process of exploration. Starting with very mild sensations and watching carefully for your response. At any level, if you are able to accept and become aroused from the experience I would then either increase the intensity or vary the experience. Or then again, I may just save that experience for another day. Like your new pic. You look good. Dave
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7/25/2006 8:23 pm |
Sensual sadism is a combination of the tactile with the cruel (Using the first person for emphasis) I might stroke the sides of your breasts to bring your nipples erect before attaching the clamps. Now that your breasts are in some amount of pain, I push you back, kiss your neck, your belly, as you realize that the surface you are laying back on is a carpet guard, turned upside down, so that the little stays stick up into your soft back and buttocks As you realize a whole different pain, I push your legs apart, stroking the insides of your thighs, then the lips of your pussy, arousing you, penetrating you, and then delivering a series of firm swats, and return to stroking This sort of ying and yang of pleasure and pain elevate your responses and your sensitivity, heightening both the pleasure and the pain Well - didn't mean to write porn, just wanted you to get the idea
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7/26/2006 2:02 am |
anyone of these doms should be explaing to you the differnce between the sadist dominince and what all NEW SUBS NEED to learn or start from 1st" - For me a Mistress would advise me to strat of with the sensual erotica Dominance with whatever extra sadism you may like your dom to act upon, pain will become your friend slowly matey, they should watch your reactions to no when to stop; ! A CT Dom and CS Mike69 no what there talking about and have good advice for you my friend, take care . spunkin.
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I see myself as responding to my subs response to the pain, rather than the actual giving. So, for me it would be a gradual process of exploration. Starting with very mild sensations and watching carefully for your response. At any level, if you are able to accept and become aroused from the experience I would then either increase the intensity or vary the experience. Or then again, I may just save that experience for another day. Like your new pic. You look good. Dave Thank You for stopping by my blog and commenting....*smiles* i agree that in this instance, that the Dom's attention to detail/His subs response is crucial. As well as the gradual increase in intensity......*L*, and save some for another day?...just when she's getting into it?...*L* that is SO Domly..*L* Thank You for the compliment as well. Have a delightful evening, rayne
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Love the new photo. Hope all is going your way.  Be well, rayne
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Sensual sadism is a combination of the tactile with the cruel (Using the first person for emphasis) I might stroke the sides of your breasts to bring your nipples erect before attaching the clamps. Now that your breasts are in some amount of pain, I push you back, kiss your neck, your belly, as you realize that the surface you are laying back on is a carpet guard, turned upside down, so that the little stays stick up into your soft back and buttocks As you realize a whole different pain, I push your legs apart, stroking the insides of your thighs, then the lips of your pussy, arousing you, penetrating you, and then delivering a series of firm swats, and return to stroking This sort of ying and yang of pleasure and pain elevate your responses and your sensitivity, heightening both the pleasure and the pain Well - didn't mean to write porn, just wanted you to get the idea Welcome to my blog and thank You for commenting.  A most delightful and evocative post i must say. It did illustrate the point in a very nice way and sent me to bed with visions of sugarplums dancing in my head...*L* i very much like the idea of the ying and the yang, that analogy makes sense to me. Be well,rayne
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Sir Mike, How wonderful that You are able to truly appreciate the physical and aural manifestations of pleasure Your Dominance brings. While i realize the application of the gag as a tool in a Doms arsenal, i can't help but wonder...He does not then get to hear the lovely moans, yelps, mewls, grunts and groans that One's touch elicits. Music to His ears one would think. Yes, dearest alexa is a rare gem, and i am so happy that Y/you two have found O/one another. Be well, *doggy*.....ooops, thats not You, errrr i mean.....*spank*...oh no, those are for alexa....oh wait...oh wait...i've got it!!!!....*HUGS* for You Sir Mike..*L* silly, rayne
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Hi MMC2, Thank You for stopping by and commenting on my blog . i have missed You in chat on Tuesdays. i am curious though Sir, as to what You do when encountering an impatient sub? Not that that would be me or anything.........*L* Be well,rayne
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Hello Sir, Thank You for stopping by my blog and commenting. Your post does raise some further questions for me however, such as...do You think it could work the opposite way?, in that a powerful orgasm could open the way for a higher pain thresh hold? or is that putting the cart before the horse so to speak? *L* the whole idea of reverse psychology must work quite well, as well as the gradual progression. i can just see the proud smile on Your subs face as she tells You about her lil bruises. Take care, respectfully, rayne
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SOMEONE CAN BE INTO D/s AND NOT INTO SADISM. I HAVE HEARD THE TERM SENSUAL DOMINANT USED FOR SOMEONE WHO IS INTO GIVING PLEASURE BUT HAS LITTLE OR NO INTEREST IN GIVING PAIN. THERE ARE ALSO DOMINANTS WHOSE GOAL IS TO LEAD YOU TO REALIZING YOUR POTENTIAL THAT DO NOT SEE SEX OR ROMANCE AS THE MAIN POINT. i think my ideal Dom would be a healthy balance of all three types, sensuality, teaching and discipline. Respectfully, rayne~c
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