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am i being mean? So now much submerged in a vanilla world, Have become fuck buddies with a vanilla guy And not my normal flavor either But thought, what the hell - I need to fuck. Anyway, We've gotten together 3 or 4 times this month And the only orgasm he has given me Is from oral. And that was out first time together. At most, the fucking lasts like 10 minutes. This morning it lasted 3. No foreplay either. I try to get myself there beforehand, But it's not working. So, i'm giving this fucking thing One more chance. And if no cum for me, It'll be our last fuck. Because while I used to think "At least i'm fucking..." I'd rather have no sex than bad, short sex. Is that mean?? |
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siens If it does not work for you, he is only a fuck buddy, then you are NOT being mean - he must realise it takes two to tango... A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw Jenny
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No, not mean at all. If he cannot even make sure you cum too, then why bother. At least with toys you can be satisfied and it seems that may be a better choice. I had one gent that talked a good story about how much he wanted to be My sub, etc... but in reality, he just wanted to think he was a sub and was very dick-centric. Yeah, that was a short lived. Really, what part of any of it makes it worth the time and energy spent?  Ars longa, vita brevis - Art is long, life is short  
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8/30/2011 11:46 am |
"Mean"? The only one you're being mean to is yourself - I mean, I hate to be crude, but it sounds like, now that he's got you to "FWB" status, he's using your body to masturbate with. It's supposed to get better each time, as you get to know your partner's body, and what turns them on - his trend is the opposite, and that can only mean 1 thing - he doesn't *care* about your pleasure. And personally, I'd rather masturbate than have sex with someone who just didn't get a damn about my pleasure. You deserve better.
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Thanks everyone! And his benefits are only for him, so I'm pretty much done. Thanks again.
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No it's not mean! I'd be embarrassed if I only went 3 minutes. I can see an 18 year old popping his cork on the 15th stroke but not a middle aged guy. If he's normal size he needs 10560 full insertions to ride you for 1-mile. That's a ton of fucking but based on what I've read about you it is something you could handle with ease. Done over a period of time with every position you can think of you'd get your money's worth (so would he!). Get another guy! An under 4-minute mile is a world record on the track but a flop otherwise.
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