Instant hookups... not over here
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Posted:May 30, 2016 2:01 pm
Last Updated:Oct 2, 2016 8:46 am 53118 Views
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Everyone here is looking for mutual kinksters for real meetups.
GET TESTED!
After you weed through the scammers and find someone compatible outside of kink
GET TESTED!.
Meet up at a coffee bar or outdoor festival.
GET TESTED!
All of this being said, unfortunately I have never been the instant hookup kind of woman. Now if I did come across someone special I would be ready to meet because I was TESTED!
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The Money Shot and the Voyeur
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Posted:Jul 1, 2015 4:07 pm
Last Updated:Jan 25, 2020 8:40 am 91115 Views
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I will admit that if I see a interesting nude pic on Alt that I will check it out. And if I really like the photos I will check it out again and again. Eventually, I'll read your actual profile to get a glimpse of what has brought you to the alt lifestyle.
The Money Shot: I have seen so many cock and pussy pictures and I'm not sure if that is the appropriate way to show what you're displaying as your best feature.
Everyone's goal on Alt is to connect with a person that has your similar sex interests. I guess if you're looking for quick and meaningless hook-ups with the aide of instanat messenger and apps (tinder, luxy, good2go) a cock and snatch shot is the way to go.
I would like to get to know you, not just your junk.
Play safe everyone!
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The aging kinkster
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Posted:Sep 28, 2014 2:11 pm
Last Updated:Dec 20, 2020 2:29 am 153633 Views
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The aging kinster....me
I'm 43 and my little sister who is 31 is constantly reminding me that I'm not 40 and that I'm old. I will admit that I totally ignored turning 40 but had a mini panic attack at 41. So I went out and did something totally stupid and got my nipples pierced. Did it make me feel younger... no but it did make me feel sexier.
I will admit that I have, on vanilla sites, discriminated against men who were older. I would totally ignore their flirts and emails, stating that the distance was too great or that I have met someone else. I think I was having some daddy issues and it just all around skeeved me out with the age difference. Also, it's not that I was keeping my options only to younger men but I don't look my age and that seems to be what would catch the younger mans attention.
I'm in my "prime" so says all of the magazine psychologists. And I always thought that ya know men around my age would just be drawn to my primness. Ha!
This site and a few others have been very eye opening. I've met and become friends with a senior cross dressing female, who really couldn't be himself/herself until he retired from corporate america. Now she is thrilled to meet new kinksters while showing off her feminine attire. I've met a senior widow, who while married to kinky husband, had a fantastic alternative sex life. Now that he has passed on, she is looking for a like minded play partner but members see her age first and not her eagerness.
Every time I log on to Alt I see members who are in my age group that are looking for not just a play partner but a permanent play partner. And I often wonder ten years from now, if I don't have a permanent play partner, when I'm in my mid fifties who or if will I be attracting anyone.
So now, after being on Alt for two years I know that every kinkster just wants someone to have safe playtime with or just to reminisce about their past kinky escapades. Because in the end we can't stay 28 and firm all over.
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curious...
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Posted:Aug 31, 2014 2:09 pm
Last Updated:Jul 1, 2015 3:09 pm 178403 Views
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So I guess I have been a member for two years now and in the beginning I had no clue on how to go about getting my needs met.
My opening statement said "curious..." which was a green light for all of the "doms" to approach fresh meat. I was excited to get the new attention but didn't feel quite comfortable telling strangers that I have deep anal and ass play desires.
The first dom that I felt comfortable to communicate was 15 years my senior and assured me that he has been a dominate male all of his life. He was retired (I was instantly jealous), divorced, former military elite officer and really attractive. We communicated for some time and after a while he gave me a kink questionnaire. Which I assumed I failed because the phone calls that came after were like trying to explain kink to a virgin.
So now it was time for the meeting after I have divulged all of my enema and anal must tries. He said that he could "host" our playtime together and that he has his own equipment and I should buy my own "red bag". He gave me his address and thanks to google maps I wanted the roadside view and it looked like he lived in the wilderness so I chickened out. I just kept on seeing me laying in a ditch surrounded by trees and overgrown weeds. He was upset that I changed my mind and let me know that he was moving from that area at the end of the month to a suburb south the the city. He never pressured me or questioned my change of heart and for that I'm grateful.
I just had this feeling of unease and I don't know how else describe it but something was off and I didn't want to find out the hard way.
I'm still curious but now extremely cautious.
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unbelievable
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Posted:Aug 17, 2014 12:09 pm
Last Updated:Sep 28, 2014 2:13 pm 183682 Views
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Hello to who ever reads this.
I have decided to write about the hits and misses I have experienced on meeting people from this site.
In each installment I will talk about the my desires and apprehension about meeting strangers that are eager to help me fulfill my desires.
Stay tuned.
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