25 posts 6/26/2007 6:59 am
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A MASTER
"My personal thoughts are somewhat controversial and perhaps one tenth of a percent of the population would agree with it and that's ok.
Personally, I believe "love" is synonymous with "serve." A slave needs to serve and love a Master and a Master needs to be served and to be loved by His slave(s).
There is something I think of as "A Master's love," but it is not "in love," there are no "butterflies" in the stomach when Master thinks of her, and the love I speak of is highly conditional on her devotion to service and obedience. For the Service oriented Master, such as Myself, a slave's disobedience lowers the Master's Dominant Flame, thus, with His need to be served unfulfilled, He has nothing to offer the wayward slave but a blank stare and bewilderment as to why she is still in His presence.
The Domination oriented Masters would probably rejoice at the prospect of a wayward slave needing much punishment and attention...also known as "service Tops" by My own personal standards since I have never seen a slave work harder than a Domination oriented Master, and I completely respect the Domination kink as I dabble in it when I play with pets and play partners because it's fun.
Master's love, for Me, is more of a feeling of pride, happiness and overall satisfaction in the Ownership of the slave that directly stems from her service and obedience. "Master's love" burns clean and keeps things healthy for both the Master and slave.
I have experimented with "in love" based relationships. I have found that "in love" based relationships breed feelings of obligation, resentment and depression that spring forth from the muddy waters of uncertainty, lack of direction and lack of structure -- its almost impossible to unplug a woman whose mind is plagued with Oprah-based ideologies. There is no correction available for misbehavior or dissatisfaction available for the Vanilla man since he has no consent from the woman to be a part of the woman's growth and education into what it takes to please him and be a part of a harmonious house. The vanilla woman is her own sovereign nation and only treaties can keep the Vanilla duo at peace...the threat of war or exodus always on the horizon. Civil war is constant.
There is further simplicity in the fact a devoted slave knows in her heart (because I tell her ) what it takes to maintain what I call "collar security." In addition to knowing a lack of devotion and disobedience will lead to the bite of winter licking her uncollared neck, she knows she herself can exercise the second of two choices she is permitted to make in the M/s relationship and leave at anytime without incident because a Master who truly cares for His property would gladly let her go if He found that her service to Him was detrimental to, or no longer fulfilling for, His slave".
- Maitre de Valmont
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26 posts 6/29/2007 3:03 pm |
The truth is always to the point, simple and obvious (once mentioned). Thanks for mentioning it again.
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6/29/2007 6:46 pm
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It is as though You have stolen the very thoughts from the mind of this submissive. Your thoughts are both humbling and inspiring. Thank You for taking the time to put them into words.
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9/10/2007 6:33 pm
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Very eye-opening discourse. This must be read and digested. And, self-examination is the order of the day. As someone just begining to delve into the BDSM lifestyle as a submissive, the profile comments regarding wannabe "masters" are valuable in helping to select a dom. Thank you.
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529 posts 9/16/2007 8:08 pm |
Thank you for reposting this. Structure - so key.
b~
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9/17/2007 11:19 pm
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I appreciate this entry so much as I have been discussing it a lot recently. How would you feel about my posting of it on 360? Giving credit where it is due of course. If you'd be open to more discussion please let me know.
thanks either way!
-gina
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10/29/2008 6:06 am
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..you speak my heart completely ~
Master's slut, violet
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