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temptr 77M
22 posts
12/6/2006 10:49 pm

Last Read:
9/10/2007 6:25 am

What is a Dom?


My approach to dominance is reflected in these words I found several years ago:
****************************************************What What Is A Dom?

I am a dominant man. I am just that.
I am not dominant because of any superiority on my part. Not because I feel I am more intelligent, or wiser.
I am not dominant because of the strength or mass of my body.
I am not, nor would I want to be dominant with all women.
Yet to you, I am Master.

I am your Master only after earning your trust
and I embrace your submissiveness.
I have looked into your heart and mind and clearly see your desires and passions.
You have thrown away your fears and inhibitions.
You tell me of the needs of your heart and body.
You have given me total access to your soul,
and I accept the responsibility and honor.

You are a woman.
You are not weak or inferior because of it.
You are a treasure to be cherished.
We are not equal.
I have the strength of body and
mind and the instinctive need to protect, possess, defend and provide for you.
You are a woman and instinctively stronger of will and heart.
Your belief in me gives me courage and direction.
Your strength disperses my doubt.
Your needs and desires encourage and give purpose to my efforts.

We are not equal. We are halves of a whole.
We compliment each other and make each other complete.
My desire to dominate you is instinctive.
It is not to degrade you nor is it degrading to you because you are secure in being totally feminine.
We each recognize and accept our worth, and our need for someone to trust and fulfill our needs.

You are sure, strong and proud in your womanhood.
You do not submit as acceptance of inferiority, but from strength and passion.
You expect a man to stand strong and be a man.
You desire and flourish in the strength and control of a man.
In return you present control of your body, unqualified trust and honesty, and the faithfulness of your heart.
You submit because I have earned your trust.
Because I have opened my heart and soul to you.
Because I have listened to your words with my ears and heart and have learned to anticipate your needs and emotions. And because I have proven worthy in your eyes, you have given me the only true treasure of life; you have given me dominance over you.

What you give is not abnormal, but pure, natural and the rarest gift a woman could give a man.
You have given me complete and unshakable assurance of your commitment to me.
Your submissiveness is a magnificent gift and sacred responsibility.
I accept this from you with humility and joy.
I understand the rarity and purity of this gift.
I recognize it is your body and soul, your heart and mind.
I dominate you only because you have allowed it.
I dominate only because you have allowed me to and when I see your body kneel before me, in my mind and heart you are raised above all other woman,
and all the treasures of the earth. What you give freely cannot in reality be bought.

silvercross44 74M

12/7/2006 9:13 am

In a nut shell,dominance is not about being bossy,shouting or
showing aggression. It is trust,commitment and enjoyment of each
other.


temptr replies on 12/7/2006 9:07 pm:
Well said Silvercross

juper29 54M

12/23/2006 4:56 am

Temptr
Im agree with you, and i would like if you let me to use part of your post in my next post, Can I?.

Thanks & let me know, ok!

Juper 29


juper29 54M

12/24/2006 5:46 am

Temptr
Thank you but forget about it, Im not gonna use anithing of your post, I didnt know it so difficult to share something that I think is beautiful!!. I was thinking translate your post in spanish lenguage, trying to use the same words and message and obvious all the credit in to your name.
Thnaks anyway.

Juper29


temptr replies on 1/4/2007 10:53 pm:
Juper, you are more than welcome to use anything you see in my blogs. I give credit for things when I know where they originated but I don't know where this was from. I found it a long time ago. My delay in responding was unintentional as I was away much of the Christmas holiday. Your thoughts and comments are important and I want you to know I value them.

silvercross44 74M

1/4/2007 5:11 pm

I have just got home from work,done all the things you do to relax
and here i am on ALT reading, this guy sums it up so right,as one dom
to another you could not get a better understanding of the meaning.
let me just add its also having the right sub & MASTER for each other.This guy is a true Master.


temptr replies on 1/4/2007 10:57 pm:
Another wise observation, Silvercross


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