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My thoughts on the importance of knowing everything I possibly can about my partner, a life process One of the ideals I hold dear to my heart when it comes to a relationship of the depth I seek is the idea of knowing everything about my partner, absolute knowledge and how it relates to what we experience together. To explain it another way, I honestly don’t wish to dive into the deeper activities we share interests in but to experience a gradual release of power and evolve in what we do together on all levels in proportion to the knowledge and intimacy we develop between us as we merge from two separate beings into one. A few women I’ve met with seemed somewhat surprised as they discovered this in different ways. I understood why they may have been taken back by this as I don’t observe it as being a view shared in practice by many. I don’t judge others for their philosophies which may greatly differ from mine. Sometimes I’ll see someone who appears to be the antithesis of what I’m speaking of stop me in my tracks when they say exactly the same thing in a different way. I find this refreshing. For me, if I don’t feel something for someone, want to know everything about them, want to hold them, want to kiss them and want to continue seeing them, I really don’t wish to spank them or anything else for that matter. |
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Poetess, that is such a lovely description! It is the most exquisite meal of life afterall. The nuances and subtleties unfolding, mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm. Thank you for expressing this so beautifully.
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rose, thank you so much. The men who can't deal with you for this honestly don't deserve you. I like intense! I like romantic! Thank you!
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Thank you so much beautifultrouble. Yes, the "getting to know you" aspect and its relationship to bonding and building trust is so essential. It's the emotional and mental connection which fascinates me most and brings the physical to life.
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Thank you so much silence. I think people come into this and either have preconceived notions from outside influences or develop their ideas from those they experience here. This coupled with their values and attitudes contributes to their views. I know what's important to me and what I wish for. This is at the very core of it all for me.
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Kitty, that's my question as well. We can easily understand physical domination but the intricacies of the emotions and psychology between people who know each other well transcends words.
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I agree with you beautifultrouble. There are people who's primary excitement derives from submitting to a stranger though, the thrill being in the danger of the unknown.
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