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tasina99 115F
62 posts
6/5/2023 4:37 pm
Searching in a Haystack

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"like the seas, her depth and power will only be known by He who inspires her into submission”


DancingDom 74M
22595 posts
6/5/2023 6:02 pm

Getting connected here there or anywhere is not easy. On line, role play as it were is useless in my experience/opinion. It can only be at best a start and only if it starts on a friendly basis first.

Best to you however and where ever your journey takes you.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


sletje1999 24F
134 posts
6/6/2023 7:14 am

It's not easy and I have found that I'm myself not always in the mood that the other person wants. Then things often quickly end for good.

However, in my experience, online is almost never a solution beyond making some contact and discussing things honestly. I have had a lot more luck to just go out and meet people for real. It will almost never be the personification of your secret dreams but it will be real and in the end a lot more interesting and fun.

Good luck on your search.


drmgirl622 68F  
26132 posts
6/6/2023 9:02 am

I searched for quite some time making the usual mistakes. I have been blessed to meet the Mistress who understands me and is willing to share her life with me. Its a journey, for sure, but one that can be rewarding.


DancingDom 74M
22595 posts
6/6/2023 9:53 am

I have met and connected with people on line in the past. But frankly with so many fakes, scammers and such that have invaded most sites, I don't put my eggs in just this sort of basket. I have met folks in vanilla situations, that were quite surprising. One of my good memories was going dancing to a big band on Sunday Afternoon at a place that allowed dancing to those bands. I frequently danced with many of a women who came there. I used to have a key fob, that was a mini flogger. One day, one of the ladies I danced with often, piked it up looked me square in the eye and said "we got to talk, and soon". So that evening when the band stopped playing, we woudl up going to diner and talking. We were soon in a d/s relationship. I woudl have married her, but sadly she was killed in an auto accident.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


tasina99 115F
41 posts
6/6/2023 4:49 pm

Thank you everyone for sharing your perspectives and experiences. They in themselves are gifts.

I appreciate you for taking the time.

tasina

"like the seas, her depth and power will only be known by He who inspires her into submission”



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