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Online and Real Friends, is there a difference? As a dominant woman, I do attract a lot of people online. Some are of interest and others, well, what can I say, some are just a nuisance. To Me there isn't a difference between online or real friends, but to some people there is. I believe in treating people online as I would if I met them face to face. I also believe in accepting people for who they are, not what you want them to be. I think talking to people online gives you the opportunity of speaking to people you might never meet because of distance, lifestyle, etc. I regard a lot of the people I speak with online as friends. There are a few people I have been speaking with for years. With some I have even exchanged telephone numbers (some special people have my address). If I speak to you online, I would certainly speak to you face to face if the opportunity arose; but some people do not see online chat that way. They see it as a "fantasy" or to behave in a way they would not if they were speaking to you in person. Question: why is that? Some people approach me in a respectful manner, others might not and I say to them to treat me as they would if we were face to face. They either "disappear" or accept what I have said and apologise for their previous behaviour or even become abusive. Also, because I am a dominant woman straight away it is a presumed and assumed I am a "professional" and want to be called "Mistress". Can you not be a dominant woman without being paid for it? Can you not be naturally dominant without being of the "scene". Can you not be dominant without wanting to "dress" as a dominant? All the above are acceptable but dont assume and presume everyone is the same and want the same thing. Get to know people before assuming and presuming. I would gladly appreciate any comments from you out there. |
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10/25/2007 6:34 am |
I hear what you are saying.....the net and cyberspace sure makes some people behave strangely....they seem to lose their ability to separate fact from fiction. Also basic civility just seems to evaporate.... Sure you can be a dominant woman without being paid for it. I wouldn't presume you require to be paid for it unless you explicitly stated so. People generally presume and assume to much in cyberspace and strangely enough it seems it's even spreading to the real world. Anyway, good luck
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From one human being to another I agree with your thougths. From a sub to a Mistress....thank you Ms.
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