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Spankstoyounme 61M
28 posts
1/1/2009 7:12 pm
Ok Rosey cheeks, Where are you and where are mine?

Hey girls please help me out here, I was lead to believe this site was kinky enough for me to find at the very least a two way very hot bot situation. Looking at what is on the site I have to think that was within the boundaries of reasonable expectations but come on girls, I cannot be satisfied with cyberstuff! Some of you want a good spanking and some would like to give me one but where are the genuine switch ladies? Please get in touch soon as I will leave this site if I don't hear from you very soon!
Happy New Year and I do hope to hear from you soon...

Spanks

MissLadywood 51F
6195 posts
1/6/2009 1:34 am

 Hello there Spanks.

Your not the only one that has trouble finding someone that they can connect with and meet in r/t.
Despite the huge numbers of people on here it can still be very difficult to meet someone with the same desires as yourself.

Maybe you should broaden your net ! Have you tried profiles on other sites too, maybe like Alternative Lifestyle Singles as well as here ?
They have a few kinky people there too.
It seems you may have have more trouble meeting someone as, from what you've written, you dont want to take things further than spanking.
I'm guessing the genuine one's on here that are willing to meet might want a bit of dominance/submission to go with it.

But i'm only expressing my opinion, i could be completely wrong !

Woody
Life So Short, The Craft So Long To Learn


Spankstoyounme replies on 1/8/2009 3:57 pm:
Hi Woody, I really do appreciate any constructive advice to get me together with another girl who appreciates the same things as me. It does seem rather difficult to find that lady here although who knows maybe...
Thanks aagin for reading my blog and please pass it on to any ladies who may be interested in what you know I am seeking.x

MissLadywood 51F
6195 posts
1/6/2009 1:35 am

 I actually suggest the sister site a f f but alt changed to, alt lol
Life So Short, The Craft So Long To Learn


Spankstoyounme replies on 1/8/2009 4:49 pm:
Hey Woody, looks like you are the exception that proves the rule(r). I seriously do appreciate the advice although I am dubious about what to do with it when its probably very accurate! (thats Thanks from Spanks!)

As a result I'm having a mild rant>> Somebody maybe you? please put this on the spankig site here! Well I look forward to responses!
Anyway:

1: Is there anything wrong with a mostly 'nilla like me who just wants some of the usual with a side order of spanks etc for both diners?

2: Is it fair to assume that having advertised myself exactly as above, that being a sentient and sexually interested and an online member of this particular site, that I would completely spurn any enquiries of other combinations? As in some of the rest of the neopolitan: Strawberry n Chocolate,I jest, slightly but shall we say other flavours to vanilla?).

O.K. I am not "broadband" in this field as in particularly experienced but I had anticipated that other girls who checked my profile would get in touch and if they had done that, realise that I may be open to persuasion in some other personally unexplored areas.

Well I am not saying that I would, but in many cases I would not refuse uncharted territory without serious aversion, but I would only travel that route after we had established that we were not only going in the same direction but also that mean something to both of us... Probably should not have mentioned that but realy it's true! Spanks

MissLadywood 51F
6195 posts
1/10/2009 3:38 am

 I dont believe that there is anything wrong in what you seek.
And you did the right thing in being honest on your profile and if 'spurned' by anyone then you dont want to get know them anyway do you ?

Maybe mention on your profile that with the right person you would be willing to explore A B or C (whatever you feel you might like to try).
But only if you are Really willing to try them.

When you look at the numbers on here, regarding the genuine ones and how they match what we're looking for, the odds are against us lol

Woody
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Life So Short, The Craft So Long To Learn


Spankstoyounme 61M
83 posts
1/10/2009 7:05 pm

 Thanks for your reassurance that profile honesty is only sensible. The thing is that with the right person I would probably be prepared to try a good deal more, I don't know really what although some of the more extreme stuff would prove a bridge too far. Yes I suppose the odds are indeed against us...

Spanks
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