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In yesterday's blog, I laid out a narrative that included going back to the man's house for 'play' after having the best first date ever and then suddenly having the walls come crashing down. Although I hadn't considered it when I wrote the narrative, many ladies picked up on the subject of 'sex' on the first date and how that would not be happening with them. OK ... I get that. I suspect, however, that there might be certain mitigating factors that might play into this equation. If you've never had sex on a first date, God bless you. If you've ever had sex on a first date, God bless you too. To be 'Mr. Inclusive', I suppose we need to include guys with guys again too. Let's also not forget the ladies with ladies. Ladies and gentleman .... Is this a 'No way, no how' situation with you, or can you ever see letting your guard ( and pants ) down? [image] Make Women Female Again
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Oh, I've let down my guard but I was much younger and could run much faster 
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To be very frank with you, If it was JUST SEX i wanted, i will be very clear about that goal of the evening. But since SM does NOT equals sex to me, i am not interested in "JUST SEX".... Did that, got the Tshirt, kind of thing, i find pure sex for the sex, terrible boring, without a power dynamic going on, that is. There is not power dynamic going on, just penetration, i am not interested in penetration as a goal an sich. Booring.... 
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Everything in its own time, dear Plz. I would suspect we have all been there and done that, me too, aa well. But we change, or most of us do, so does the preferances and standards.
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Of course I have had sex on the first date, my current wife included. But the need and the plans for having that sex have changed dramatically over the years. Early years was about the act itself and quantity was important. Later in life it morphed into quality and slow and lengthy and D/s desires. Life changes and so do needs and desires.
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I am in the *No way, No how* camp. Always have been. I have yet to find the male who would make me rethink that.  Ars longa, vita brevis - Art is long, life is short  
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1/24/2022 7:36 am |
He could ask her if she read any good books lately. 
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I’ve had sex on the first date once and it was unplanned. Spontaneous turned into 6 months of meeting for sex. The best! That was years ago. Before I ever knew of power exchanges or bdsm. I had the need but wasn’t able to delve into till much later! And I’m so glad I did. Once you experience deep desires acted on it would be hard to go back to vanilla.
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Once you experience deep desires acted on it would be hard to go back to vanilla. I'd replace the word 'hard' with 'impossible'. Yep .... Once you open Pandora's box, it's over! Make Women Female Again
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Given your honesty, you only have to say two Hail Marys and we can skip the Act of Contrition. 
What's this world come to? 
Probably one of a very few number of people.
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