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Plzrmeister 67M  
2508 posts
1/14/2024 5:21 am

Last Read:
1/18/2024 6:29 am

Experts


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Actual Blog therein.

Make Women Female Again


Plzrmeister 67M  
10449 posts
1/14/2024 5:34 am

Ya gotta love the experts around here don't ya? There are the political diatribes we discussed a few blogs back and then there are the experts. The ones that seem to think they're in a lecture hall and they need to impart their infinite knowledge on people. "OK people,, here are the fundamentals of BDSM">

Yeah, it's funny. It's as though the rules of BDSM were carved in granite and left at the end of his bed one night as he slept. Maybe like God giving Moses the ten commandments. These blogs have become as tiresome as the daily political rants. As with theses political rants, I no longer click on the expert's blog.

Back to the ole .... "It's their blog, so they can write whatever they care to and if you don't like it - Don't read it." I don't read it, yet I wonder if others do read it and merely scoff and/or snicker at such pomposity..

Well, maybe God did leave the BDSM directory, rules, regulations and concepts at their home. Maybe Santa left it for Christmas? They have a pretty high opinion of themselves'...... and it seems to escape them that it is, in fact, merely their 'opinion'.

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Make Women Female Again


theowner2020 64M  
1217 posts
1/14/2024 6:05 am

Amen!!!


Plzrmeister replies on 1/14/2024 6:37 am:
Amen and Awomen .... C'mon - Get with the times.

You must agree about the 'experts'.

uncommon1 66M  
1434 posts
1/14/2024 6:14 am

So you're opinion is that opposing points
of views shouldn't be voiced . .
A "blog" by definition is a discussion, not
just a billboard where people to profess
aimless BS.


Plzrmeister replies on 1/14/2024 6:43 am:
Hmmm .... I was pretty sure I said, "It's their blog, so they can write whatever they care to and if you don't like it - Don't read it." I don't know .... I'd think that would apply to any sort of opposing view??

Have I got this right .... You encourage tolerance for what you call opposing points of view and then indicate people profess aimless BS? OK .... Got it.

tastetester61 62M
1781 posts
1/14/2024 6:18 am

There seem to be some on here, male and female, that seem to strive to write something so profound, that the masses will stand, listen, and applaud. It's almost as if they need this to feel complete. I won't have a chop at them as I feel some of them mean well, but I can't stop wondering if it is something they need to do to feed their sense of self worth. Or worse, their ego! In the end, it's up to individuals to choose whether they read them, and how much they feel to take from it all. I just leave what is alone.

What is an expert? An ex is a has-been, and a spurt is a drip under pressure.


Plzrmeister replies on 1/14/2024 6:50 am:
That seem to strive to write something so profound, that the masses will stand, listen, and applaud.

You've noticed that too? There are some blog entries that are rather profound and make you think - I enjoy those.

I enjoy them too rather than the 'lectures' .... Perhaps it's the writing style, but experts/lecturers come across differently.

tastetester61 62M
1781 posts
1/14/2024 6:22 am

    Quoting uncommon1:
    So you're opinion is that opposing points
    of views shouldn't be voiced . .
    A "blog" by definition is a discussion, not
    just a billboard where people to profess
    aimless BS.
You are correct, but sometimes offering an opposing view can put you in the firing line. At times, silence can be the greater part of valour, because common sense is not that common.


Plzrmeister replies on 1/14/2024 6:54 am:
You're right .... Making an observation ( as you did in your first comment ) or stating an 'opinion', can draw fire from others. Oh well......

Funny how some people will react when they feel their toes have been stepped on.

uncommon1 66M  
1434 posts
1/14/2024 7:00 am

Have I got this right .... You encourage tolerance for what you call opposing points of view and then indicate people profess aimless BS? OK .... Got it.

I'm not encouraging "tolerance" but I'm
not saying it's their blog to write anything
they want without challenges to what they
write. There is always more than one way
to consider any opinion even experts.
"Aimless BS" is in the eye of the reader!!

To expect common sense from people shows
your lack of it.


Plzrmeister replies on 1/14/2024 7:12 am:
Since you state aimless BS is in the eye of the beholder. This beholder considers your comment in that category. Glad to hear you consider this acceptable.

My lack of common sense? Ouch .... you have such clever and deep cutting insults. If you have a need to belittle people, go for it - I'm sure the readers here are as impressed as I am.

uncommon1 66M  
1434 posts
1/14/2024 9:17 am

If you have a need to belittle people, go for it

My statement wasn't being degrading,
just truthful . . . How readers judge truth,
depends on their common sense.
Being sure of how their judgment falls is
presumptuousness I doubt the find too
impressive.


Plzrmeister replies on 1/14/2024 9:41 am:
I'll just go back to your statement that "Aimless BS" is in the eye of the reader!! Once again, this reader considers your comment in that category.

Right? Given you say telling someone they don't have any common sense isn't belittling, I'd have to say that illustrates your lack of common sense.
"Just truthful" ..... You certainly ride a high horse don't you? That's OK - I'm betting most around here find you a pompous windbag. I know I do.

1benquick 71M
612 posts
1/14/2024 10:41 am

    Quoting uncommon1:
    So you're opinion is that opposing points
    of views shouldn't be voiced . .
    A "blog" by definition is a discussion, not
    just a billboard where people to profess
    aimless BS.
Seem to recall a BLOG by the 'uncommon1' that was about a jail cell he once spent time in, and that he was told that Jesse James had once done time there, as well. Of COURSE, unless he was referring to the 'Jesse James' that was once married to Sandra Bullock, the post was shrouded with BS, as the 'original Jesse James' never spent time in jail in his short 34 year life, as far as History has established...TALK ABOUT PROFESSING AIMLESS BS!!! LOL! Ironic that the 'uncommon1' would post something like that and then post this comment responding to your BLOG. But, then, he did REMOVE the 'Jesse James Jail' BLOG, think he was embarrassed that he was CAUGHT posting BS, but then again, if THAT were the case, shouldn't he remove ALL his BLOG POSTS? LOL


Plzrmeister replies on 1/14/2024 11:05 am:
Perhaps he has a different set of standards/rules for himself than he does other people. At least he's educated everyone that "Aimless BS" is in the eye of the reader!! .... Well, until it's removed!

I suspect the pompous windbag will need to comment on what you've said. I'm sure it will be something terribly profound .....

grywolf2 73M
3109 posts
1/14/2024 11:03 am

Plzr,

Correct me if wrong but this blog seems to be tiptoeing into Diatribe territory.


Plzrmeister replies on 1/14/2024 11:12 am:
I think we're closer to the 'rant' side of the equation. If we were to make a similar blog ad nauseum day after day after day, it shifts to the diatribe side.

Perhaps a matter of ceramics.

Do you men semantics?

Yeah, that too.

Peaceofcake 62M

1/14/2024 1:07 pm

Some truth


Plzrmeister replies on 1/14/2024 1:22 pm:
Partly truth and partly fiction.

Yeah - But which is which?

meltwill2 72M  
3808 posts
1/14/2024 7:35 pm

OH damn.....now you've done it.....unleashed EXPERT HELL.....


Plzrmeister replies on 1/15/2024 4:28 am:
Yeah .... "If you build it, they will come".

Like a moth to a flame ......

meltwill2 72M  
3808 posts
1/14/2024 7:37 pm

    Quoting grywolf2:
    Plzr,

    Correct me if wrong but this blog seems to be tiptoeing into Diatribe territory.
Think???? Must be the fuckkawe tribe....


Plzrmeister replies on 1/15/2024 4:29 am:
Both tribes are off the reservation.

And it wasn't even Saturday night.

Artschoolgrad 47M
8707 posts
1/15/2024 4:21 am

As it happens, I am an expert on blogs .... : )


Plzrmeister replies on 1/15/2024 4:32 am:
Indeed you are .... and you do it quite smoothly without coming across as a windbag. Bravo!

Now get thee to Vulgastan and bring us back some more photos of their beautiful nekked women..

InderioMinx 54F  
19838 posts
1/15/2024 5:31 am

Well, maybe God did leave the BDSM directory, rules, regulations and concepts at their home. Maybe Santa left it for Christmas?...

This made me laugh. Thank you.

Ars longa, vita brevis - Art is long, life is short


Plzrmeister replies on 1/15/2024 5:58 am:
Oh good .... It's always nice to provide a chuckle to people!

Yes ... You're welcome - Glad you enjoyed.

rosaenaluin 65F
11006 posts
1/17/2024 10:04 pm

OH, OH,
Now, you did it!
You opened a can of worms!

You should have known better!
That is why it is, so totally impossible, to have a decent conversation, on anything d/s - bdsm like, on the Dutch part of fetlife.

Because ther is only ONE way, and thats it.
Most of the time, it are the bedroom players, who shout the loudest,
IFY

f you dont "DO", << what ever<<, you are not a REAL submissive, or REAL Ddominant,
Their style,

The - One -Way- Dominance/submissives. amp;

So terrible serious about "their role" , no sense of humor,no self spot, not able to put things into perspective.

Terrible people to be around.


Plzrmeister replies on 1/18/2024 4:19 am:
Apparently there are experts all around the world .... Why am I not surprised?

I've isolated those I feel come across as experts and never click on their blogs ... They get old quickly.


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