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Plzrmeister 67M  
2521 posts
2/2/2024 4:05 am

Last Read:
2/3/2024 1:29 pm

Practice Makes Perfect


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Plzrmeister 67M  
10464 posts
2/2/2024 4:18 am

This is an adage we're all familiar with. With many things in life, there's a 'learning curve' and the more times we perform a particular task, the better we get at it.

That's true. We get better at it and in many cases, depending on the task, we can reduce the amount of time necessary to complete it. The thing that comes to mind for me the most are physical activities of the human body .... Athletic endeavors are the prime example I'd point to.

I'm sure each of you readers can think of some things in your life you got better at the more you performed the task. If it's not athletics, perhaps it was something at work, something at home ...... Hell, we all drive don't we? Were we as good at driving the first time we got behind the wheel as we are now?

Funny you should mention that. There's a drivers training school about a block and a half from here. They drive around in various models of vehicles, yet all are painted a vivid yellow with 'Student Driver' signs on the sides and rear. I hate to get behind one because they are so overly cautious in everything they do..... We were all there at one point in time, weren''t we?

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uncommon1 66M  
1439 posts
2/2/2024 5:24 am

We're also familiar with the
adage; No body is perfect.
Don't confuse a learning
curve with perfection.
Trying to earn approval and
acceptance through performance,
is perfectionism, not practice.
The same men that seek to devalue
females for their lack of experience
are the same men that seek validation
by chasing them.


rope_n_cuffs 78M  
949 posts
2/2/2024 5:35 am

My ballroom dance instructor used to say that practice makes permanent. Important to get it right before you make it permanent.


Plzrmeister replies on 2/2/2024 5:42 am:
That's an interesting thought.

Another adage that rings true .... At least to me.

Yern2lic 67M
1345 posts
2/2/2024 6:05 am

👍👍👍👍👍


Plzrmeister replies on 2/2/2024 6:20 am:
I think he agrees....

Yeah .... I agree with that assessment.

Artschoolgrad 47M
8730 posts
2/2/2024 6:08 am

I will volunteer that oral sex is something i got better at over the years. It helps when she is specific about how she likes it!


Plzrmeister replies on 2/2/2024 6:22 am:
Practice, practice and more practice. In fact, as much practice as we can get!

Some things are fun to work at perfecting.

drmgirl622 68F  
26118 posts
2/2/2024 6:31 am

When I was growing up, I practiced (poorly) ice skating......nope it just didn't work. Good thing I live in FL


Plzrmeister replies on 2/2/2024 9:32 am:
I tried ice skating 'once'. The skates always wanted to collapse on me - I blamed it on my flat feet.

I hear ya .... My flat feet make a duck envious.

grywolf2 73M
3114 posts
2/2/2024 7:57 am

I think perfect may be in the eyes of the beholder. However, there's no denying that practice makes better.

But it is just not repetition, you need to have a teaching source that can offer you
proper technique for any pursuit, only then can you have a chance to approach perfection. imho


Plzrmeister replies on 2/2/2024 9:38 am:
Indeed ... being taught proper technique is critical if you want to become as good as you can be.

I'm reminded of Nadia Comaneci who scored the first 'perfect 10' in the 1976 Olympics. I suspect the judges did not know there was no such a thing as perfect.

rydermantel 69M
25401 posts
2/2/2024 8:56 am

No pipe dream here.


Plzrmeister replies on 2/2/2024 9:38 am:
OK

Hmmmm .....

ExNameForUse 53F
5764 posts
2/2/2024 9:32 am

I don't see the practice as a need to reach any sort of perfection, only to be as good as I can be... so pushing myself and moving some imaginary limits in my head... I am sorry, as Dreamy mentioned, I wasn't persistent with ice skating as I adore watching it and it always gives me that sensation like they are levitating above that ice... but I wasn't really good, been too scared of falling and embarrassed when it happened a few times so I gave up... but in my case, I think a good example would be English language and becoming more fluent and less afraid of using it... there is so much more to learn even though I know I will never be as near as I would want to be... but did it improve with practicing - ohhh yes, it sure did...


Plzrmeister replies on 2/2/2024 9:47 am:
I'd say you do very well with the English language You speak it better as a second language than a lot of people do using it as a first language. I'm sure you see that from reading the blogs and/or the comments thereto.

Join the club ... As noted above, I didn't have any luck with ice skating either. I think there should be two blades on each shoe ... That'd make it simpler, wouldn't it?

Dave54321 61M
2718 posts
2/2/2024 2:01 pm

When I started in engineering I was taught there was no such thing as perfection,
only the degree to which we can measure something.
Measure something with a ruler/rule & we might say it's exactly 1inch, measure it
with a micrometer & we can see it is not exact.

I would agree with grywolf, it's more pactice makes better. Also rope_n_cuffs, we
need to be practicing the right technique.

My father was a physical education teacher, so he taught all the usual things,
football (soccer), rugby, cricket, athletics. But, his love was gymnastics. In the
evenings he ran a gymnastics club & most of his pupils where girls. Some of the
girls went on to compete at national level. One became British tumbling champion.
Tumbling is the floor exercises, if you are unfarmiliar, no equipment other than a
springy floor.

My father was in awe of that Nadia Comaneci performance.
But was it perfect? The judges obviously felt there was nothing that warranted
a deduction. Maybe it's the scoring system that's imperfect?


Plzrmeister replies on 2/2/2024 3:16 pm:
In a perfect world, I think all of us would understand that 'perfect', 'perfection' or any other word with the word 'perfect' in it is subjective. There's no such thing as perfect? Says who? I didn't realize this blog was about whether there was such a thing as perfect. If something is perfect to you ... Is it not perfect? You gonna quibble about the use of the word - Really?

There's nobody now in your life and nobody has ever been in your life that you have told they're perfect or perfect for you. No wife, no girlfriend, no child .... Nobody. Has anyone ever told you that you're perfect .. Parent, child, spouse, etc. Did you quibble about the use of the word? I do want to thank everyone for the education given the readers here who uses the word 'perfect'.... Perhaps some of us will know better in the future.

Peter8xxx 65M
606 posts
2/2/2024 7:47 pm

    Quoting ExNameForUse:
    I don't see the practice as a need to reach any sort of perfection, only to be as good as I can be... so pushing myself and moving some imaginary limits in my head... I am sorry, as Dreamy mentioned, I wasn't persistent with ice skating as I adore watching it and it always gives me that sensation like they are levitating above that ice... but I wasn't really good, been too scared of falling and embarrassed when it happened a few times so I gave up... but in my case, I think a good example would be English language and becoming more fluent and less afraid of using it... there is so much more to learn even though I know I will never be as near as I would want to be... but did it improve with practicing - ohhh yes, it sure did...
"ExNameForUse"! I don't know the English language at all! Curiosity gives me motivation! Translators are a great help, the ambiguity of some words and the meaning of some sentences are a mystery, but I'm sticking with it! If you write freely, without help, that's great!


Plzrmeister replies on 2/3/2024 4:16 am:
It seems to me you have a very good grasp of the English language. If you hadn't said anything about it, I seriously doubt anyone would have had a clue.

I certainly wouldn't have .... You do the language well.

Peter8xxx 65M
606 posts
2/2/2024 8:28 pm

Sorry "Plzrmeister" for getting back to you!
She was perfect! I was a big fan of Nadia! But what price did she pay for this "perfection"?
What price did all her successors pay to reach her level?
"Can't be done, doesn't exist!" That's what drives us, someone always wants to be better than the others!


Plzrmeister replies on 2/3/2024 4:22 am:
Perfection and fame seem to be fleeting and may come with a cost somewhere along the line. Many celebrities, stars or famous athletes run into rough times ... While others fade away gracefully. I doubt in either case that they regret their 'glory days' though. Who knows ......

To reach for a distant star, so to speak, motivates many people and good for them. I see nothing wrong with striving to be the best you can be .... If that's a world record holder, so be it.


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