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Plzrmeister 67M  
2523 posts
3/16/2024 4:48 am

Last Read:
3/18/2024 4:50 am

Brats


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Actual Blog therein.

Make Women Female Again


Plzrmeister 67M  
10464 posts
3/16/2024 5:11 am

We all see the term tossed around on ALT, don't we .... either in the blogs and/or profiles or elsewhere. I've never given too much thought to what actually constitutes being a 'brat' and I'm sure everyone's definition will vary, as it does with so much of the BDSM terminology. When I saw this meme, it got the gears inside my head grinding, so I thought I'd bring the subject before the peanut gallery.

I'm with you - I've never given it too much thought either. I've always enjoyed playful and witty banter .... verbal volleyball, if you will, so I definitely desire a submissive with a little spunk. When does having some spunk turn into being a brat .... I couldn't tell you .... That's something everyone would have to determine for themselves.

Logic would dictate to me that the more rules you have for your submissive, the more opportunity you give them to, shall we say, rebel or be 'bratty'. Of course there are different dimensions of being submissive - Some relish as much micromanagement as possible, while others desire very
little. Micromanage the latter, and you're going to have problems on your hands.


I've never been big on rules. Hell - The more rules you have, the more you have to keep track of .... No thanks. Micromanagement? Not my cup of tea. Give me someone with their head screwed on straight with common sense, common courtesy and a deep seeded desire to submit. That seems the perfect co-pilot to me.

Make Women Female Again


drmgirl622 68F  
26119 posts
3/16/2024 7:14 am

"verbal volleyball".......this is my favorite part of relationships. I just love to have that type of banter with Mistress but when her tone changes......time to settle down.


Plzrmeister replies on 3/16/2024 9:11 am:
Tone is such an important part of communication ... Right in there with body language.

Yes, neither side wants to be 'tone deaf'....

grywolf2 73M
3114 posts
3/16/2024 7:22 am

Not a clue either.

We need a self-proclaimed brat to fill us in.


Plzrmeister replies on 3/16/2024 9:13 am:
Calling all brats ... Calling all brats ... Come in please.

Car 54 where are you?

aliljaded 53F
8926 posts
3/17/2024 2:18 am

I have been known to have a bratty side when it serves a purpose. Of course, I know how to shut it down when It stops serving me.

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


Plzrmeister replies on 3/17/2024 5:05 am:
Are we talking 'manipulation' here?

It sounds like it ... Off with her head! Errrrrr wait - that'd be a little extreme. Maybe just make her listen to the sound of fingernails on a chalkboard for an hour.

Artschoolgrad 47M
8730 posts
3/17/2024 3:18 pm

I like rebels


Plzrmeister replies on 3/18/2024 4:44 am:
Rebels without a cause?

James Dean .....


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