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Plzrmeister 67M  
2543 posts
2/26/2012 5:57 pm

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5/15/2016 5:19 am

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I chat now and then with a woman who is new to the whole BDSM scene and the conversation always comes around to what is the difference between a submissive and a slave. The first thing I preface things with is that there are no hard and fast rules carved in granite anywhere and that if you asked 100 people this, you'd get 100 different answers. Each of you reading this have your own definitions.

For My perspective, I tell them that 1) all slaves are submissives although all submissives are not slaves and 2) a submissive will have any number of 'limits' whereas a slave will have fewer .... And some will profess to have none. Clear as mud, right? That's about as far as I take a differentiation, because I don't like to come across as some all knowing, all seeing wizard of BDSM.

Speaking of a slave with a professed 'no limits' profile (Shifting gears a bit here). Aside from the obvious fake and BS profiles, I do see many professing to be a 24/7 no limits slave.
OK, I can live with the 24/7 thing, but no limits???? Really?

Let's start with a few of the basic things. How about , scat or animals. Still no limits? I see a few leave the audience. For those left ... How about shaving your head, pulling all your teeth, mutilation and amputations? More leaving this time. For those left, how about selling you to someone else? Blinding you? Cutting off your ears? Is anyone here still really 'no limits'?

I've seen some discussions where people maintain anyone actually maintaining they're a slave is a farce in and of itself. The argument is that if you aren't a slave as in the pre-Civil War South (When all the above things I mentioned were OK between an owner and their slave) you are not a slave at all.

Personally, I don't get hung up on 'labels'. If a woman does no more than suck cock and identifies herself as a slave, so be it. Who am I, or anyone, to determine the terms of their identity?

Think on.....

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Plzrmeister 67M  
10505 posts
7/3/2012 3:50 pm

Couldn't agree more with a single word you said. Too bad more submissives don't do the homework you did before getting into this lifestyle. They'd be very less apt to fall for a lot of the BS that goes around on ALT.

No limits? NO fucking way! G

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Plzrmeister 67M  
10505 posts
11/5/2013 4:12 pm

you have limits? Say it ain't so - I was looking forward to shaving your head. G

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