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SafyreRain 38F
16 posts
6/22/2012 12:21 pm
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Plzrmeister 67M  
10479 posts
6/22/2012 2:54 pm

They talk about in this life that you can never marry your slave and you have to be some what detached of emotion towards her, but I also have found husbands and wives can manage this relationship [DOM/sub]

I'm not sure where you came up with this or who 'they' are, but it's 100% bullshit. Not marry your slave? Be somewhat detached emotionally? What a crock! Get these ideas out of your head and do it now.

Are there some Master's who don't marry their slaves? Yes. Do some Masters and slaves keep themselves detached emotionally? Yes. There are all sorts of relationships out there ..... BUT there are no rules about what type you can and can't have.

Has your 'Him' read or will he read this blog? He should, as it spells out what you need and crave in your relationship. Trust Me on this one .... If you're not getting what you need, the relationship is doomed to end in failure - Merely a function of time.

I have heard of many men who can't treat the one they love as a true slave for fear of hurting them in one form or another. What they fail to realize is that they're already hurting them by not fulfilling their deep seeded needs. Communicate, communicate and communicate some more. Master G

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SafyreRain 38F
7 posts
6/23/2012 7:36 am

Thank you all so much for your comments. They are all very helpful. I talked with him some last night to open the lines of communication and try to tell him what i need. Well to an extent anyway. I am scared to verbalize all my desires to him, and i don't want to hurt him. So i am taking baby steps to tell him what i need. We'll see how things go from here. I will keep posting in my blog. It really helped getting all that out. It gave me a great deal of clarity and your comments give me strength.


college_cock808 35M

8/29/2012 2:02 pm

I hope things changed for the better for you. Having good communication is key, so both Master and slave can share their feelings and their likes/dislikes. I hope you will be able to walk around with your butt plug and nipple clamps for him. Aloha from Hawaii


98percentsub 52M

1/14/2020 6:17 am

Your guy sounds like a good one - he cares about you as you do him. Unfortunately, he will not be able to satisfy your cravings and the sooner you accept this the happier you both will be.



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