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HetFlexK 51M
157 posts
8/27/2020 10:38 pm
the silent treatment


I know I’ve grumbled before about how people (readers and video watchers) don’t leave comments but this silence is infecting other aspects of my business as well. I can’t get my customers to say anything to me either, and I am reaching out to them directly. Just what the heck is going on here?

For the most part, this has been true on OnlyFans. It took me 2 or 3 months before I finally had a customer correspond with me, and in the end he abruptly disappeared. Since then, I’ve had people purchase subscriptions, and I sent them personalized thank you notes, but to no avail. Not yet anyways. The same is true for ManyVids; so far I’ve sent a personal note to every customer that’s made a purchase, but have yet to hear back. I don’t just say “Thanks!” either, I give them a reason to interact with me. I ask for feedback, good or bad, and let them know I’m open to chatting, listening to requests, you name it. And not one single soul is taking advantage.

When I was purchasing and watching porn, you didn’t have easy, direct, nearly instant access to the performers like you do now. If I had been able to talk with any of the females that I found so alluring I probably would have lost my mind with elation. I can’t tell you the number of fans that would freak out when they found out they were writing to the actual K and Catherine de Sade or the actual Daddy K and punkin, back in the day, but not so much anymore. Every once in a while I get that sort of reaction, but it mostly comes from guys on Pornhub. They dig my crossdressing movies and love the fact that they are actually trading messages with the person in the videos they jerk off to, but the conversations never go anywhere or last very long. Good for them, I suppose, but not very fulfilling for me.

Even those guys disappear pretty quickly though. Is everyone that fickle? Am I somehow too available? Too eager? Should I be playing hard to get? Why the dang silent treatment?

hauntinglyblu 57F
6663 posts
8/28/2020 2:33 pm

I feel similar. Like I'm alone or adrift. People talk at me, or ask questions of me or need things from me...but its not me...its like im an object without a soul...the proverbial well that everyone takes from but no one leaves anything in kind.
I see you and apologize for my silence. I think that I've been a quiet observer of yours for so long, that I don't want to intrude. I'm sorry you're feeling disquiet. I don't think its anything you have done or are doing, It may have more to do with your audience and its focus or lack of...than you.

Wishing you well.
B


HetFlexK replies on 8/28/2020 8:24 pm:
you're being silly - you're one of the few I can rely on to say something now and then. You have nothing to apologize for xo

Kitkatshadow 57F

8/29/2020 2:30 am

The internet is a nasty cruel place, even more so for those who are real.


HetFlexK replies on 8/30/2020 12:30 am:
Yes, it is, but I'll just keep quietly plugging away. xoxo


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