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Blogs > HetFlexK > True Hetero-Flexible Tales

HetFlexK 51M
157 posts
3/12/2022 10:50 am
the act vs. the person

I am romantically heterosexual, which means I only date, have romantic feelings for, and fall in love with members of the opposite sex. When it comes to my sexuality, I am no more prone to sharing the deeper, more intimate aspects of it with men than I am when my heart is involved. I might describe myself sexually as heteroflexible, but the bottom line is that when I am with males I am not really attracted to them very much, if at all. Not usually anyways. If I’m getting my dick sucked, it is the blow job that I am attracted to, not the guy giving it to me. I am turned on by the act, not the person.

That is generally not the case when the mouth swallowing my cock belongs to a female. In most instances I find the woman visually appealing, and chances are I have also developed some “other” feelings for her as well. Sure the oral sex is good, but there’s a lot more going on emotionally. With a guy, it’s all about my cock, and how good it feels to have my sexual needs taken care of. During the moment, I’m not gazing down longingly, but there’s no denying my obvious enjoyment. I vocalize my appreciation, speak lustily and moan with pleasure if it is justified. Once that moment has passed though, I don’t want to hang out with the man that just swallowed my semen. The same can rarely be said when I am with a female. I want to cuddle, talk, or do whatever it takes to extend the moment just a little bit longer, so we can enjoy each other a bit deeper. In those moments, it can be more about the person than the act. Sex is “just sex” but love is so much more, or has the potential to be.

I am a sexual being, and have never shied away from an experience because it involved someone of the same gender. The same cannot be said of romance, or love. My heart and hopes belong to the opposite sex, but my cock is not so selective. Call it 1 / one part desperation and horniness, and 3 / three parts heteroflexible, primitive brain impulse-to-mate thinking, hunger and a bunch of other stuff. The act of getting naked and<b> getting off </font></b>is what I am attracted to more than anything else, so I don’t discriminate, but there will always be a distinct line between love and lust. And until a female gets involved my posts are going to be about my attraction to, and enjoyment of, acts and not people.


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