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HetFlexK 51M
157 posts
7/7/2022 9:49 pm
unwanted visitor

A very dear friend of mine has contracted an STI; syphilis. We like to think we’re invincible, like when we stand on the top of ladders and think that falling off could never happen to us, but it then it does. I know I made it nearly 50 / fifty years without any major injuries, including broken bones, but I didn’t make it very long after I first became sexually active, before I had to deal with an infection. Make that an infestation. Yes, I had crabs, and more than once. I also wound up with something called Molluscum Contagiosum, which looked a lot like Herpes and had me VERY concerned until I went to see the doctor. That’s it though. In my years of fooling around, fucking, and placing my cock in all manner of warm, moist orifices those are the sexually transmitted issues I have suffered from. And since I am heavily against the use of condoms I’d say I am extremely lucky.

There was a time when I got tested for Sexually Transmitted Infections on a regular basis, because both I and my girlfriend were making films with other performers, and it was required. It was also the decent thing to do. Every 6 / six months we went to a clinic and had our blood drawn, so I knew for sure during those years we were together that I was clean of everything. Since then I’ve only gone for testing when I feared something was amiss, which has been infrequently to say the least. When you aren’t very sexually active, you don’t risk getting infected, and my sex life hasn’t been noteworthy for quite some time. It’s true that last year I was fucking a female roommate after she was having unprotected sex with guys who were dumping their loads in her, but I somehow managed to make it through that unscathed as well. She had a minor scare while we were living together but it amounted to nothing. I’m just a lucky lucky guy I guess.

I’m not sure if cases of syphilis are up or down this year, but it’s frequently an issue in Oregon. When I cruise the hookup site Sniffies I see the majority of men pretty much insist on unprotected sex, and although I can’t say I blame them for making the choice when it comes to the level of pleasure that can be achieved, I can’t help but also shake my head in disgust at the lack of concern. Syphilis definitely isn’t the only disease we can get, and it’s not the worst one either. Whether men are on PREP or not, whether they are “undetectable” or not, there’s still risk to be assessed and either heeded or ignored. I absolutely love watching my sex slave ChirsSwallows suck and throat the cocks of strange men, and admit it wouldn’t be as exciting if they were all wearing condoms. He knows the risks and makes the decision to gamble every time he does it, and when I stick my cock in his mouth right after he’s sucked some strange dude off in a glory hole I am incurring risk of my own. In other words, I’m as dumb as everyone else at that moment.

Since I’m not having sex with anyone but myself these days I don’t have much to worry about, but when I do start putting my dick back in the rotation I will think twice about doing it without a condom. It’s not like I was unaware of the risks before, it just takes something like this (or a fall off a ladder) to remind me I am not invincible. The pain of broken bones was enough, I don’t need the agony and embarrassment of an infection as well.



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