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Blogs > HetFlexK > True Hetero-Flexible Tales

HetFlexK 51M
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9/29/2022 8:55 am
the "desperate for dick" dance
As my social experimenting continues on the gay hookup site Sniffies I am noticing a change in my attitude. Perhaps it was sexual frustration, or the pure lack of any real stimulation of that type for so long that fueled my original arousal, but that is quickly fading. What is replacing it is a kind of mild disgust mixed with humor.

I’ve already mentioned how reckless and stupid I think most of the men who post there are. They seem to think being on PREP is equivalent to being invincible to all diseases, which is simply not true. And even if you’re no longer worried about the Covid pandemic there is still the very real monkeypox situation that is practically targeting sexually active men. Ignoring all that is just dumb, and it’s turned my attitude a bit sour I’ll admit.

Then there are the guys who seem so desperate for sex or attention that they not only spend money to post separate ads, they also scramble to repost obsessively so theirs can be the first people see when they look in that section of the site. For instance; a man will put up an ad saying he wants to get fucked, that his door is open and he is blindfolded and ready to take any and all dicks that stop by. This ad is in the top spot for maybe a minute before it is replaced by a different posting from somebody else. Less than 2 / two minutes later, that guy looking to get fucked by any and all dicks is reposting, with maybe a bit more written to hopefully entice. This ad is in the top spot for another minute before a couple of guys post, and then it’s no longer in that coveted top spot. Can you guess what happens a minute later? Yep, the guy obsessively reposts, so that his ad can be the first seen. I know I’m being judgmental but that’s just sad and pathetic.

For the most part I see the same members, looking for the same things, and that isn’t surprising at all. It’s not very entertaining either, and doesn’t widen my scope of curiosity, so I’m starting to sour on the whole thing. No unique personalities anymore, continued reckless and idiotic behavior, and lazy messages from people that really don’t seem invested in accomplishing anything except trading a few pictures and words. There’s a level of desperation present as well, that totally turns me off. I think my experiment is nearly over and I will abandon my obsessive checking of ads and messages very soon. There are so many better things to do with my time and sexual energy, and even though it’s true I might have been using the site as masturbation fodder in the past, now I’m just staying away so I don’t lose my erection. Yep, I think it’s just about time to go.

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