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8/2/2023 5:44 pm

you just HAD to push it, didn't you?

Look, I know that people taking a peek at my profile on rentmasseur are getting the idea that I provide something more erotic and sensual than just a naked massage, but nothing remotely specific is implied. I simply state that I want to help my lower their inhibitions and explore together. Nowhere do I say; “I’ll suck your dick” or hint for even a moment that they can suck mine. And when it comes to ass play, I’m finding a great deal of the men I meet want it incorporated into the session, but on varying levels. Nothing in my profile says I am interested, or into that, because I keep it super vague. As a result I can be confident I am following the rules, but also know that I am not suggesting anything illegal. As we all know, exchanging sex for money is against the law in just about every form, so if you want a blowjob from your masseuse you better wait until you are naked, and he’s been massaging you for a while before you bring that sort of thing up. My deal is to let those kind of things (my dick in his mouth, his in mine, any form of ass play) happen naturally / organically, and not just because to specifically discuss it beforehand is akin to a and John making a deal. If things unfold and we “naturally” end up naked, with my cock in his ass it’ll be fine as long as we didn’t, at any point, agree that he was paying me for that to happen. I was just there to give him a massage, officer, and we got carried away.

I’m telling you this because an idiot recently began a text message exchange with me that ultimately went too far, and the worst part about it is that the guy knew it and did it anyways. Nothing severe, just stupid really, and a waste of my time. In a nutshell; he asked if I would pose and flex my muscles while he touched me. I indicated this was fine, and when he next asked if I had any boundaries regarding that I told him that I was pretty open and easygoing, but reserved the right to vocalize them at any time. He seemed to understand this, and I thought things were going well until he asked a question he prefaced with, “If this is out of bounds…” which meant he pretty much knew what he was going to ask was something he shouldn’t. He wanted to know if he could suck my cock while he felt my muscles, and had he not blurted it out like that, and instead waited until we were together and asked in person it would have been fine. As it was, he was asking if a sex act could be performed while I was being paid, so I had to end the conversation right then and there. Most of me believes he was just a clumsy douche, or perhaps jerking off to my messages, but the paranoid guy in me worried he might be the police trying to catch me doing something wrong. No matter the circumstance, I don’t allow conversations that could incriminate me to play out.

For the most part, I’ve felt the majority of the conversations have been genuine, not people intending to waste my time. It has been an exceptional experience because in any other remotely similar situation (gay men looking for another man for _______) has been laden with fakes, flakes, time-wasters, etc. That paranoid voice in the back of my head is quieter than it has been in a while, because I’m not constantly dealing with people who are not sincere. The few dopes that do something clumsy or dumb haven’t ruined the “job” yet, I’m happy to say. Let’s keep it that way, please!


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