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Blogs > HetFlexK > True Hetero-Flexible Tales

HetFlexK 51M
157 posts
8/15/2023 9:32 pm
it's not all bad
Something I don’t want to do is leave the impression that I am having a horrible time being a gay masseur, because nothing could be further from the truth. As with any job, there are moments when it definitely sucks, for various reasons, but overall I would say I have little to complain about. The fact that I genuinely get aroused quite often is testament to the fact that it’s not all bad. As I am fond of saying; the dick don’t lie. There are benefits beyond the freedom to make my own schedule and the excellent pay. There are also negatives, and even risks, so like anything else a balance needs to be struck. I’m working on that.

As of this moment just working as a gay masseur is not sustainable enough. There are many factors at play but the bottom line is I need a more stable job that gives me a paycheck I can consistently rely on. If I’m going to accomplish any of my goals, be they on the bucket list or otherwise, I have to keep making progress and not plateau. I think even if I took away the fact that I only bike to I think there are still too many limitations to what I can offer, and what I can actually pull off. Eventually the fact that I am not gay and not attracted to men does come into play, so either my appointments are spaced apart or I start taking pills or I don’t know what. All this worry and supposition assumes an increase in interest if I tell everyone I have transportation now. It also assumes I will start traveling the distances necessary, that I often find ridiculous. I need to put it in perspective though, and stop acting like 20 / twenty miles both ways is too far to drive. It’s not like I’m driving that 5 / five days a week, it’s just for a single , and likely for just a single hour.

So yes, I need a bit of an attitude adjustment to make things a bit more lucrative, but it still isn’t a plan that will get me reliable transportation and a chance to stop checking things off my bucket list like driving to Grants Pass and jamming 1 / one last time with my friend Luke whom I spent time in prison with. He’s the guy I entered the talent contest with while we were there, and the plug was pulled on our performance. That’s another story entirely. I also want to go see my , whom I haven’t been around in MANY years, and who lives quite a bit further away from me than Luke does. Working toward those simple goals is what I’m doing right now, and massaging guys is helping a bit, but not fast enough. So I’ll earn the easy dough while I can, enjoy myself as much as I can in the process, and continue to look for something more suitable for the long term. Being a gay masseur is not all that bad, but things overall need to get a lot better.

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