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Blogs > HetFlexK > True Hetero-Flexible Tales

HetFlexK 51M
157 posts
10/12/2023 8:53 am
some things you never miss
While technically returning to a job in the adult industry (gay massage) does make me feel a bit of nostalgia for other times and gigs from the past, it also has me frustrated to be revisiting certain aspects. Yes, I am once again grumbling about the fakes, flakes and time wasting liars that plague the adult industry. I don’t care if you’re making movies or massaging people, there are an abundance of assholes out there just aching to mislead you into providing them endless messages, and masturbation fodder. I literally hate these fucking people and wish bad things upon them.

Thankfully it has taken a while for this to creep into the gay massage gig. For the most part, guys have been consistently honest and reliable, but lately a spate of the opposite has gotten on my nerves. Men that trade a ton of messages, make an appointment, then not only fail to keep it but also fail to cancel or even respond the day of, are a big problem. Cancellations are part of the job, and I fully accept that, but if you can’t have the decency to drop me a single line, you are a prick. And a big middle finger to the guys who ask question after question, as though pretending to get information, all the while masturbating to the exchange without any intention of following through. That sort of dishonesty isn’t just annoying, it’s pathetic, and I don’t like dealing with people like that.

But yes, it does come with the job, and soon enough these few assholes will be a memory, and new ones will be taking their place, but there will also be some legitimate sprinkled in as well. I just regret I can’t focus all of my attention on them because I am often busy wading through the fakes, flakes and time wasters. That sort of distraction is not good for my mental health, or my business. If these guys could just be honest and say all they want is to jerk off to my messages at least I’d have the opportunity to refuse, but that’s not as exciting, is it? Deception is probably the bigger turn on than anything I could type to them, but I’m unknowingly caught up in it until the person flakes, or somehow reveals themselves to be otherwise wasting my time. Or I just get a hunch and say bye bye. Regardless, it leaves me feeling several kinds of negative, and that is a sensation I do not have any nostalgia for.

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