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this is not a social call The gay massage thing has been going a bit better since ChrisSwallows and I came to an agreement and things in the house settled down. He is on RentMasseur with me as well, so he has something invested in making the situation work. It’s going pretty good. We try to promote each other, as well as the possibility of a 4hand massage from both of us at the same time. The times we work together have been fun but trying to help each other book solo appointments doesn’t usually end well. A most recent example would be a friend that ChrisSwallows introduced me to, that is heavily religious, and obviously heavily conflicted if he’s getting naked gay massages. I do my best not to judge anyone, and was actually pretty excited to see where the session would take us, but the guy canceled. Normally I wouldn’t make a fuss, and would be less inclined because he is a “friend of a friend” but he did it in a very dramatic fashion. The shortest version I can give is that he wanted to show up for our appointment early, and attempted to contact both ChrisSwallows and I via text and phone call, but when neither of us answered he threw a tiny fit and canceled. It wasn’t that he needed to see me earlier, it was just convenient for him, but he felt we were ignoring his attempts to contact us. And I’ll tell you; to his credit ChrisSwallows WAS refraining from responding, while I was completely unaware he was calling and sending messages because I had put down my phone to eat my first meal of the day. Totally unnecessary drama, and I don’t tolerate that. There’s actually more to this story. After a rough back-and-forth between the and I via text, ChrisSwallows came to me and shared a message he’d received. The friend/ said, among other things, that my approach and attitude were too borderline gay and that made him feel uncomfortable. My use of the endearment “love” was a particularly prickly thing for him. I call female clerks “love” and I don’t mean it in a gay or straight way, I simply like using it over ma’am or miss, just like I don’t like calling guys man, bro, friend, etc. The guy is obviously confused, conflicted and quick to judge. Typical religious person attitude, especially when you learn he holds a position of authority within the system. But I shan’t devolve into bashing for too long. The last thing of note was his final message to me. It expressed regret, but he said something I felt smacked of either insincerity or idiocy. He claimed he set up the appointment to get to know me better. So he either has a very strange and expensive way of getting to know people, or he’s full of poop. The truth is probably something far more intriguing, and maybe even embarrassing. If you want to get to know me, do so like a normal human, and if you want to book a massage (erotic or otherwise) do so with no ulterior motives. Be a straightforward person and maybe get the results you seek, but act like a fool and incur my wrath! Doing gay massage is a job for me. It is my business. When a person books an appointment they pay for my time, and though there might be social elements like chit chat to the interaction, it is most certainly a transaction that revolves mainly around the act of me putting my hands on them. It is supposed to be a massage, not a social engagement. How guys get that a bit twisted is beyond me.  |
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