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HetFlexK 51M
157 posts
1/24/2024 1:38 pm
movin' on out

I’ve been told that I need to vacate my current living situation. This was actually a long time coming, so I’m not too surprised, but that doesn’t make the situation any easier. Finding a place at this time of year, with limited funds and serious mental issues is going to be quite a challenge.

This move will likely be very good for me though, even if I wind up living in a van for a while. The noise levels and variations I’ve had to deal with over the past couple of months have been difficult to manage, so knowing I’ll be away from that is a relief. Of course, I could wind up in a worse situation, but I’m not going to move forward with that attitude. I believe things will get better.

At this point in my life I have very few ties to any one city, or state. I do love Oregon, and would like to remain here, but if the chance to move somewhere else came up I’d give it serious consideration. Apart from the existence of a couple of friends, there are no longer people keeping me tethered to a specific place or area. I know I am alone in this world, which gives me the freedom to go where I want without worrying about others. That’s the only real bright point I can think of for that.

My goal has been to find a living situation that is safe, quiet and free of drama. Beyond that the details become varied. I’d like a “normal” roommate situation where we simply coexisted but I’d also like a roommate situation where I was getting my the sex I need every day, so the search has been broad and fraught with stupidity. When I get my dick involved, there’s always stupidity.

People talk about doors opening and closing during times like this, and I get that they want to put a positive spin on it for me. I myself would like to keep as positive as possible, so anyone trying to be supportive or helpful is appreciated, even if they can’t actually do anything. It’s been strange getting helpful tips and friendly messages from more strangers than friends lately, but the sentiment is still welcome. Any positive energy focused my direction is good.


drmgirl622 68F  
26060 posts
1/24/2024 6:00 pm

I wish you luck!


HetFlexK replies on 1/26/2024 9:49 am:
thank you, love! Have a couch for me to crash on? haha


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