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boundary pushers There is a vast difference between pushing boundaries and ignoring them. If a massage of mine says he is not into ____ for whatever reason, I steer clear of that area or activity. That doesn’t mean I stop trying to be erotic, or get him turned on, I just do so while respecting his boundaries. I once told a I had zero desire to kiss. I didn’t hint, I flat out told him I did not do this with . Moments later he was pulling at my head, mouth open, trying to get me to lock lips with him. During that session I actually became angry, and almost let it ruin the moment. What part of NO did he not understand? There is a I’ve known for a few years now, who likes to take vids and pics, and when we first started seeing each other I allowed it. Eventually I drew the line and said I didn’t want to anymore. He seemed to respect my decision, but over the years has continued to ask me if I would do it again. I politely and firmly tell him I am still not interested, but time goes by and he asks again. Somehow I guess I am not communicating clearly? I’ve no idea why people can’t take NO for an answer, or why they feel the need to push boundaries and limits. Maybe they’re just being selfish, or the only excitement they get is from breaking rules? I’m just tired of refusing the same guys the same activities they already know I don’t participate in.  |
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