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HetFlexK 51M
157 posts
3/5/2024 7:40 pm
friend news

There’s news I put in my posts, and then there’s the more personal, yet equally banal news I tell my friends. Just like I’m not likely to share a detailed account of my sexual escapades with some of my close friends, I’m also not likely to share a detailed description of my stomach issues with my readers. It’s not that I’m keeping it private from either side, it’s just that I take my audience into consideration. My friend Brien doesn’t mind hearing the occasional tidbit about my sex life, but he is not into hearing me regale him with the tale of how I fucked some guy in the ass through a glory hole the other night. Some of you might not want to read that either, which is why my blog is so varied, but there are just some “normal” things that don’t come out unless I’m maybe desperate for material. Things like…

For 4 / four straight days I have had a normal poop. This is significant because I have serious stomach issues, and have lived with certain people who know of my difficulties. To share this with them would be like celebrating a milestone, because they know the history, but you’re probably just shrugging your shoulders and wondering what the big deal is. And the subject matter is, well…

I’ve been spending more and more time without earplugs or earbuds in, and even went an entire hour in a public library, on a busy day, without losing my patience due to a misophonia reaction. Again; I have a close friend who shares my struggles with misophonia, and would totally be celebrating with me when she heard this, but most of you probably haven’t read the few posts I’ve put up about my issues with it. You might Google misophonia and get an idea of what it is, but unless you’re familiar with the intense struggle I’ve been having for the past several years the fact that I sat in a library without headphones on won’t even seem noteworthy. But to some of my friends, this is important news.

Things like how well rehabilitation on my hip are going will likely not elicit the kind of reaction I would hope for here, but when I tell my friends how much better I am doing the smile on their faces brings me a spurt of pride. They were there when I was in the hospital bed, and now they can celebrate the fact that my mobility is actually far beyond what was predicted. In the eyes of an average doctor, I am fully recovered, but for me there is still progress to be made. That being said, where I am 2 / two years after my accident is definitely noteworthy.

So there’s some “friend” news I wanted to share with my few silent “friends” lurking in the shadows…



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