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HetFlexK 51M
157 posts
3/11/2024 6:36 pm
why make an enemy?

I was on the only hookup site I belong to (gay or otherwise) when I noticed a picture of a pair of beautiful, seemingly natural tits. After exchanging a few messages with the person, I couldn’t bring myself to just blurt out the question of whether or not I was speaking to a man, woman, trans so I went the sneaky route and asked to see a “fuller” photo. I was informed this would only be done through an app called Signal, which I just happened to have, so I gave this person my Signal name and waited for the promised picture.

At first there was just more of the same chit chat when we connected on the app. Whether or not the person I was trading messages with had a vagina remained a mystery, but I was informed pretty quickly that they were a sex worker. It was clumsy, but I was quoted an hourly rate and everything haha. Instead of a photo, I waited for a video to upload before I fully responded to this information, eventually watching a clip of a woman playing with her pussy. There was nothing telltale trans about her, it was just a female trolling a gay hookup site for mostly straight guys I assume. Not a great business plan, and I let her know that, but in the politest of ways. I was neither rude, nor sarcastic, and in fact tried to give some advice and helpful hints. In the end, I received a very abrupt, “Kiss my ass” and that was it.

Instead of making an ally, this woman decided to make an enemy. Now I’m not actually mad at her, or anything even close to it, but when a person deceives to get your phone number, then drops the truth that they want money, then gets upset when you try to be helpful - I think people wouldn’t be surprised if you were at least a bit irritated by that. She had to know she wasn’t making any friends with the “Kiss my ass” but did it anyways. Now if I’d been a sarcastic prick who insulted her I might have deserved something like that, but I didn’t. Things must be really tough for her, or she must be very angry to decide that was the best path to travel.



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