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but make it sexy I run into a lot of personalities and fetishes on the hookup site I belong to. We’re talking everything from so new they’re nervous, to so perverted they have nearly no limits. Personally, I find the wide range fascinating, and generally fun to interact with. Some of the newbies can be annoying with how nervous and indecisive they are, and some of the freaks can be a little too “out there” for even me, but for the most part it’s a fun bunch of horny guys. When it comes to the extreme end of the spectrum, I’ve found men who were more into humiliation and degradation than any of the typical BDSM play. They want to be emotionally struck, but not physically. There’s an awful lot of bodily fluids and other stuff being ingested, which doesn’t really turn me on, and fists come into the equation for insertion, not punishment. There’s an abundance of submissives and bottoms, and a deficit when it comes to the Dom / Top side of things. That’s so completely opposite of the “straight” world, where there are dicks aplenty, waiting to plunge, but their objects of desire are few, and you have to fight for them. Men on the hookup site who are giving pleasure in the traditional way are not generally picky - in fact, they seem quite desperate because of said dick deficiency. For someone like me, who doesn’t discern, it’s like taking aim at those fabled fish in the barrel. One guy with some extreme desires like forced play, slapping, choking, etc. regaled me with very graphic details about how horribly he’d like to be treated, with most of it actually revolving around pain. For a sadist like myself, what he described did indeed sound brutal, but beautiful, and I could understand how he might have trouble finding men on the site to treat him the way he wanted to be treated. I think he would have been an immensely enjoyable toy to abuse, but alas he disappeared from the site like so many do. Before he did, he sent me a final message that made me grin though. He told that he was absolutely serious, wanted to cede control and be treated like property, but did not want it to feel like punishment. He basically said he wanted to be mistreated, but asked that I please make it sexy. I took this to mean slap with passion, not anger, that sort of thing. I’ll likely never know, because it’s likely I’ll never hear from him again.  |
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