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HetFlexK 51M
157 posts
3/24/2024 12:59 pm
more than meat

I recently changed my profile on the hookup site I belong to, so instead of looking for men to jerk off next to me in my van I’m now hoping to find a guy who’ll take me out for a drink and take things slower. I’ve kind of presented myself as someone who is exploring, which isn’t exactly true, but isn’t totally false either. Usually my interactions with men are quick, and to the point, whereas I am trying for the first time to make it a more social affair. I don’t just want to walk into some guys house, take off my clothes, get satisfaction and leave. This time around I’d like to sit at a bar, share a cocktail, and be more flirtatious. It’s actually a big step in a different direction for me.

Unfortunately, nobody is taking me up on it. As is usually the case, guys see a picture of me and just blindly, mindlessly send a message offering me things I do not want. It’s partially my fault, because I have up a beautiful shot of my engorged prick resting against my thigh, but that doesn’t excuse the laziness. I’m asking for someone to take me out for a drink and take it slow and I’m getting pictures of gaping assholes with invitations to destroy them. Even a cursory glance at my stats and other desires would show I am not openly interested in, or looking for, anal action but that doesn’t seem to stop most.

It’s true I have a nice cock, but I am more than that. My abs look good as well, but I am more than any particular body part - or all of them put together for that matter. Believe it or not, I am a thinking, feeling person with likes and dislikes, preferences and limits. I don’t mind being objectified and viewed as a sex object or toy, but that’s not the reality. My cock only gets hard when I am actually aroused, and when I say I’m not interested in something there’s not much anyone can do about it but accept and move on. If a guy would read my profile, take me out for a drink, and let things happen more naturally chances are he’d get exactly what he wanted, just more organically. Wham, bam, thank you is fine but I want to be made to feel just a bit more special - a bit more like a person and less an object. So far, that seems too much to ask, but then again I’m on a hookup site seeking that, not one geared towards dating. Then again, I don’t want to date, I just want something in between that and quickie. It’s bound to appeal to someone sooner or later…



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