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the futility of it all If you were a gay man who was online looking for a sexual encounter, wouldn’t it make sense to actually put the effort in towards getting what you want, instead of being lazy about it? I mean, even if you’re just hoping to suck a cock, or get yours sucked on, wouldn’t it be smart to do what is required in order to make it happen? The alternative is to search for longer periods of time, and face a lot more rejection from many more individuals, because you are being lazy about the whole thing. Is that really what people want? Their actions sure seem to indicate so. When a guy sees a photo of a body part he finds attractive, don’t you think reading the profile and stats attached to it is a good idea? If a submissive/bottom is looking for a Dom/Top does he assume that every single picture of a large penis is attached to the kind of person he’s looking for? Because that is exactly how most men act; they see a picture of my dick and without taking so much as a single minute to find out anything about me, just start sending messages. Often they attach photos of body parts that, frankly, I do not want to see but they wouldn’t know that because they just start clicking away, sending things that are completely unwanted. They willfully waste their own time (and mine) with the futility of their actions, and I can’t understand why. Whether I am looking for something sexual or romantic, from men or from women, I don’t do so mindlessly. I certainly don’t waste my time sending unsolicited photos to people unless I have at least ascertained whether or not the target audience will potentially appreciate them. If I want my cock sucked, I look for men who clearly state they are cock suckers, and then I make the required effort to meet them in person. What I don’t do, is ask too many questions, request more pictures than necessary, or any of that. If a guy specifies he is not into the same activities as I am in his profile, I don’t waste my time hoping I’ll be the exception to his rule. Sometimes I think I’m too quick to try and hook up in person, but I don’t care - those who aren’t ready can contact me another day -or not. I take steps towards my goals, not ones that will make them difficult to attain, and don’t act contrary to what will get me what I want. I don’t know if it’s that gay men are lazy, ignorant, lacking in intelligence or perhaps just rude and uncaring, but it happens over and over again. Enough that I thought I’d write a post about it… |
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