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the big "ass" you make It’s natural to draw conclusions and make assumptions about things, even if we don’t have all the facts and information necessary to be smart about it. Some feel they can intuit, others are certain they “know the truth” because they are just plain smarter than others, but ultimately we’re all guilty of these mistakes. I can’t count the number of times I’ve jumped to a conclusion, only to find out I was completely wrong. It was embarrassing, and you’d think I’d learn from those kind of errors, but for some reason I keep falling back into the habit. It is for this reason that I do not blame others when they are guilty of making assumptions about me, or jumping to conclusions. I completely understand how it could happen, even when we don’t want it to. Many, many people have admitted to me that they assumed I would only be attracted to, and aroused by, a person with a body style similar to mine. To put it bluntly (and not at all politically correct): chubby and fat people have assumed I’d only found other skinny people like myself attractive. That’s not entirely accurate; I find lack of inhibition much more alluring than a perfect ass, and my cock is likely to get consistently hard when presented with an open, uninhibited person versus a perfectly proportioned body. This is especially true with men; I’m much more into a guy with a gut, who is eager to be a good sex partner, than one with 6 / six pack abs that is relying on his visual appeal to satisfy. It’s definitely more complicated than that, but you get the idea. When I take breaks from sex I don’t necessarily abstain from activities that might still arouse me. Often I will decide to go without stimulation for a few days, but will still log on to the gay hookup site I belong to, just to see what’s going on. I look at photographs, check my messages, and keep track of a few pseudo friends that I can only find there. People that know me from the site, and see me there, assume I am looking for fun, and that makes total sense when all you have is a view from the outside. Just because I am logged in doesn’t mean I am “looking” but I don’t blame guys who jump to that conclusion. If it bothers them, that’s too fucking bad, because I belong to no one. Labeling myself “mostly straight” or “heteroflexible” automatically places certain assumptions in the minds of most people, and once again, I can’t say I blame them. Labels are useful, but for someone like myself they are not permanent, or all-encompassing. On any given day, at any given moment, for any number of reasons, I might act, think or feel differently than I normally do. This is how I used to believe all people were, but I realize the rarity in it more each day. So many men and women are set in their ways, and frightened to step outside comfort zones, but when it comes to the realm of sex I am not. Assuming I won’t flirt or get intimate with another man makes sense, but it is incorrect. Buy me a drink, make me feel comfortable, and you might be surprised at what I get up to. Better to keep your mind open to the possibilities instead of jumping to those conclusions so quickly. Nothing is certain, and you really shouldn't make an ass out of yourself by jumping to conclusions without the facts. That being said, believe and think what you like. The truth is equal parts much more fascinating, and completely innocent and uninteresting.  |
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