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do you really need to ask? I think the body says what the lips don’t need to. My loud, enthusiastic orgasms should be a clear indication to anyone sharing a sexual moment with me that I had an enjoyable experience, just as my erect penis should indicate genuine arousal in any given situation, especially since I do not take pills of any kind to make them happen. Yet, despite both these glaring examples of honest enjoyment, I still get asked if I had a good time with someone. Really? When I had an orgasm and you saw me practically writhing and shuddering with pleasure that wasn’t enough to indicate I’d had a good time? You needed to ask? I’ve been with people who were stoic and difficult to read, so I know I am not like them. My body, as well as my voice, communicate plenty during a sexual encounter. Even if I’m not talking dirty I am still moaning, and giving positive feedback in that way. The fact that I am grateful comes out in the form of verbalized “thanks” more than once, and the huge smile on my face is also a pretty obvious indication of satisfaction. To tell you the truth, I can’t figure out what it is about my demeanor that would make people ask me if I’d had a good time with them after we’d just shared a sexual encounter. Yet it happens time and time again. Honestly, I couldn’t be more obvious, yet somehow it doesn’t quite get through. This is not a complaint or rant, it is more like an odd observation. I’m not offended when this sort of thing happens, just baffled. Sometimes I feel like I express my gratitude too much, but perhaps one thing somehow doesn’t have anything to do with the other. I try not to let it bother me, but when I spend half an hour getting my needs taken care of I want my moans of pleasure to be received, and my satisfaction to be evident. The orgasm itself would seem to be the answer to the question of whether or not I had a good time, but then again I’m the guy who says it’s the journey, not the destination. I want the person I am with to know I am grateful, so they feel the effort was worth it, and so they don’t feel the need to ask me if I had a good time? They really shouldn’t need to inquire…  |
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