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Blogs > HetFlexK > True Hetero-Flexible Tales

HetFlexK 51M
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4/27/2024 11:22 am
don't call me Daddy (unless)

Please, if you are a gay male; don’t call me Daddy. I know it’s all the rage for a younger person to refer to an older man in this way, but it makes my skin crawl. The irony, of course, is that if I were to hear the same thing from a female it wouldn’t bother me a bit. In fact, I’ve been in 2 / two intense Daddy relationships, and enjoyed the dynamic quite a bit. Being referred to as Daddy or Papa felt amazing, not creepy, and I’d happily do it again if I could. Age difference is not that big of an issue, because the dynamic is more about a frame of mind than anything else. I’d have no problem with a lady my age referring to me as “Daddy” even if it wasn’t a literal possibility that I could actually be her Father. I admit the authenticity of being with a young(er) woman who actually could be my does lend an extra layer of authenticity and realism to the whole thing, but any woman who can convincingly age regress is going to find me quite accepting of a paternal nickname.

There’s no denying I am old enough to be a Father, and in fact I do have a biological that is getting married soon. I don’t mind being reminded of my age, I just don’t exhibit the same tender, protective nature towards younger men that I do towards women of all ages. Gay men are not to be loved and cared for, they are to be utilized and enjoyed. That might sound brutal but at least it is honest. My heart does have the ability to love all ages, races, genders and so forth, and I’d never close it to the possibility of a true connection, but if it happens I fully expect it to be with a female. Of one thing I am certain; it would take an incredibly young male to convincingly pull me into the Daddy dynamic. It’s something I’ve never wanted, and I’m not looking for it now, so the chances are slim to none. And calling me Daddy or anything like that, before any kind of connection has been established, is just going to immediately turn me off.


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