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Blogs > ShaneToDia > Sexy Time~

ShaneToDia 27F
76 posts
9/20/2015 7:13 pm
Not much of a sub

I'm a switch, which means I can go between being a sub and a dom. But to be honest, I'm not that big on being submissive all the way. I like being teased and stuff. I love being dominated. But I really hate being told what to do and to have people try and control me. I'm a free spirit and I rather not be held down too much. I'm very into bondage. But you try to order me around and trust me, things will probably turn ugly fast.
I just rather not be ordered to do things. I swear. Calling me a slut? That isn't exactly a turn on for me, more like a turn off. Call me a bitch? Well hmmm... I identify as male so why are you trying to refer to me as a female? I'M A TRANS MALE WHO DOESN'T LIKE TO FULLY SUBMIT TO ANYONE.
I don't know, it could just be me but half the things people send me do not turn me on, they just really turn me off.
I'M NOT INTO SCAT OR GOLDEN SHOWERS. THEY MAKE ME FEEL SICK. But whatever.

msfunfor 63M
10808 posts
9/21/2015 12:57 am

 and why do we care ?

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LQQKing4NothinG 54M
188 posts
9/21/2015 7:50 am

 I just find this interesting because I've never really heard of a person saying they are a sub (or switch) that does not like being told what to do or have people control them. From what I gather, your fine with being tied up but beyond that being a "sub" doesn't interest you?

Everybody's different, so your answer in any way isn't a knock on you. I just find it curious. Being a submissive typically means a person gets some gratification in giving control to someone else to specifically please that other person. So being ordered around would typically be part of the job description for a submissive person.

What it sounds like to me is your more of a true dominate than anything but your willing to take your "turn" at being the bottom so long as you don't give up control. I may just be misunderstanding you and for that I apologize in advance but I must admit some confusion to hear of a person who describes themselves as a sub or a switch but does't want to give up control- that's all.



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