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1_issabella_1 52F
42 posts
4/18/2021 10:57 pm
Disappointed


Why is it, when one i respect says I have disappointed him, why does it hurt so much.....even when I know I was right.

AlphaDaddy4subF 58M

4/18/2021 11:00 pm

it still hurts to know you disappointed someone


alwaysassertive 64M

4/19/2021 12:33 am

You can decide what you want to do. When I'm wrong. I'll admit it, but when Im right about something. I won't back down. I stand by my principles. If I'm disappointed in someone it's the direct result of their determined actions and not from a mistake they have made. Perhaps some communications are in order. I can't be more helpful because I have no idea what it's like to be a sub. Everything I say comes from my perspective as a dominant. Maybe it will mean something and maybe it wont.


sletje1999 24F
134 posts
4/19/2021 2:21 am

It's difficult to say more than some generic things, without knowing some more details. If you love and/or respect someone, it does hurt to know you disappointed them. But if you feel you were right, then maybe you should also look at their motives. You can disappoint someone because their expectations were simply egoistic.

If their disappointed was not mainly driven by egoistic expectations, then maybe you should really look deeper. If egoism was the main factor, you probably should also look deeper in why you give so much value to their opinion.


Wicked_Tongue 61M
690 posts
4/19/2021 2:49 am

Disappointment is always amplified if it's someone about whom you care...


1_issabella_1 52F
53 posts
4/24/2021 1:15 pm

Thank you All/all I know i was right , the person I disappointed has taken it upon himself not to ask my opinion, so I let it go...his loss.
My heartfelt thank you, all great points.

Respectfully

Issabella


Quikin50 65M/63F

9/11/2021 12:07 am

Your opinion’s will always matter Bella, I would like to know if it was me .


Quikin50 65M/63F

9/11/2021 10:28 am

I know of disappointment, and it does hurt. I also realize that talking about the situation may put things at ease. Speaking as a Master, I personally would not be disrespectful kajira,”Bella”, because I feel that the amount of time and effort that you girls put into being what you are deserves respect these days.
Good bye ..”Q”


1_issabella_1 52F
53 posts
9/20/2021 2:24 am

You and your GOOD BYE pisses me off


Quikin50 65M/63F

9/25/2021 10:51 pm

Hugs, my girl …and kisses her soft lips xxx



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