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tahimikbayani 53M
452 posts
3/1/2022 7:01 pm
How much is...

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tahimikbayani 53M
8008 posts
3/1/2022 7:07 pm

I'm sure there was a time when you could go out to a venue and have dinner and a drink with someone and then go home for a night of spanking and sex.

Seems so...


rondiri 65M
11158 posts
3/1/2022 7:26 pm

There are such an infinite amount of "degrees" to our lifestyle. It seems everyone is looking for something JUST a little different.


tahimikbayani replies on 3/3/2022 4:45 pm:
So true, so true.

1naughtydom 75M

3/1/2022 8:13 pm

Mmmm..beautiful


submissivesandy2 22F
17 posts
3/1/2022 11:15 pm

I so agree with Natalie, I love that feeling of knowing he has control over me, that my pain and degredation is giving him pleasure and that in turn makes me happy. ) oh and very wet)


tahimikbayani replies on 3/3/2022 4:46 pm:
I can certainly understand, and how it should be.

rosaenaluin 65F
11002 posts
3/2/2022 1:15 am

It is a part, a big part of who i am,
although i cant give any of it, to the man.. well because... we all know why that is...?!

I like the wide variaty of all the SM-BD-sadism/masochism flavours, although there are some i just cant understand, and that is fine too.

For me it is not first sexual orientated at all, for me, it is also not " A ROLE" i take on...
It is mé. the hidden mé, the mé, the vanillas wont ever be able to understand and that makes if very lonely...

Oh, and there is a difference between "the lifestyle" and just living a 24/7, TAT dynamic/relation.

"the lifestyle" is mostly more into roleplay the parts... that makes them happy-horny...


tahimikbayani replies on 3/3/2022 4:49 pm:
LOl, good points and perspective.

Tckg12 69M
2465 posts
3/2/2022 2:29 am

i also agree with Natalie but in the opposite way. having her in control of me. don't know why it seems as the women need be the sub on so many of the posts here


tahimikbayani replies on 3/3/2022 4:50 pm:
I understand. And, I guess that is what shake out here...female subs.

drmgirl622 68F  
26062 posts
3/2/2022 7:41 am

I always knew that I was sexually submissive and dominant women were my weakness. I finally understood what it was in me and have let go of the fears of rejection that were holding me back.


tahimikbayani replies on 3/3/2022 4:51 pm:
It's good to know oneself and you seem to have found your way.

ridermantel 68M

7/30/2022 3:12 am

With all factors and elements taken into consideration, it is unique as is each day. It is constantly evolving.



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