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rosaenaluin 65F
10189 posts
9/14/2017 1:11 pm
The art of.....


It almost seems that the art of having a conversation is lost on this medium
Or on the majority of men here?

How to start a conversation?
Do you forcefeed your ideas about all and every thing, and what not, through the other persons throat?

Not, if you want the conversation to last longer then some short moments...

When i am intruiged by other people, and in the circomstance to have a conversation with that person,
i start by asking them this and that, find out what and how the think.
how and were they stand in their life....
i really love to do that...

In that way there is room to let something grow, some feeling of appreciation.

i dont go along, with telling them, they have to believe what i believe, because otherwise they are not real people.
i dont go along and deny their right on their truth.
I always try to find some common ground.

I also love to talk to people who are not born here, in Europe i mean
i love to hear their storys.
Try to find some common ground, as human beings

We have a small Toko here, run by people from Syrië.
I love to talk to them, we talk about all and everything, from good quality honey to dresses, and then some...

We start a conversation, give the other person some personal room, to be what they are.


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