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Sex, Sex, Sex, Sex, Sex, Sex, I know sex is for most men, really, really very important. It is their numero uno activity, or so you think...… It is the first thing they think about, when the are awake, or so it seem. And the last thing they think about when they go bed.. Or, so you should think, when you hear and read about hów important sex is for them. Their holy grail…... I have had great sex, bad sex, lousy lovers, great lovers, really, really very great lovers, egoistic 'lovers'. I have had share of sex, all kind of sex, also the so called "kinky sex".....  Since i know i am a masochiste, i dont "need" sex anymore, much Anyway. You could say, i have had share of sex, last more then 1 life time. If i tell this guys, it is almost as if you reject the whole guy. How dare i dismiss ONE thing is so very, very important them? As if sex is the person? How pathetic is ? Most men get really, really mad , for rejecting sex.. I think it might be their one and only offer they can thing of, 'give' a woman? I dont know... Being a masochiste means, in case, i need PAIN, real heavy pain be able get quiet place head, where everything stops and there is heaven, where i can finally let go..... No more thoughts, no more planning, no more worries, no more.... I dont archieve , by "just having sex", ooh, sure i get fair share of orgasms. But is pure bodily, there is no mental surrender the man, all. There is almost no surrender man, there is "just sex". There is no physical experiences goes sooo deep, it touches core as sadistic acts can bring .. So, sex? Ah, well, yes, i know some people really care about having or getting enough sex. Right! Good for them! Sex? Ah, well, if and when i get in contact with a D, who knows his bisniszz, not some wanker, i believe he will have a penis and i believe and trust he knows how "work" his penis. I trust he know the female body and knows the difference between the needs of a masochistic woman and a lust woman. I also trust he, when we are building a stable D/s working get a M/s dynamic, he will fuck . When he gets into mind, he will understand what sex means , how i need , from him...… Because, when hé is Dominant, it is his choice fuck or not. Since i am his...… I trust sex will be part of our D/s, M/s. Part, not the main menu. Sex? How boring, what ever, talk the hand! Yawn…… 
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I also know the non sex = g*r*a*p*e, the bad sex, the against your will sex, the group sex, the group against your will sex = violence against women. I know them all.
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Very well said!!!!!!
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We've all had those experiences lol
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12/24/2019 9:05 am |
We could put it like my Master does, "sex is necessary, but not sufficient."
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Jag_60, Thank the goddes, for man like you! 
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bimom4taboo, Thank you so very much! _||_
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johndoe4443, that is really very considerate from you, 
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gopats1, do 'we' now.....? 
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ammoncleveland, that is a nice one, it is not that i am against sex, but if the geezers first talk is about needing all the sex they need.... i am already out of the door. They dont get it. BDSM = not about sex but about some sort or some level of Authority Transfer, even "just" in the sexbedroom actions....
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12/24/2019 2:44 pm |
Well said thanks for sharing
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rosa This is very logical and suits you, and I suspect many others perfectly A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw Jenny
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jenny, indeed, i dont Judge people who are really, really into sex, that is fine by me. I just dont like the assumption, that being submissive means you nééd sex... there is more in life than having to have sex.... i think.... There is more to being submissive then the need for sex... I guess it is a mans thing... hahahaha.....
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JKMNT44, thank you,
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ahh .. well, as for me, I will stick with the 'need and love sex' camp... ..
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xextrax, And you are right too! Enjoy! it as much as you can!
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