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Nice? This person reached out to me, so i write him a message... He tells about his subs, who "service" him... he is in a relation with one, or something like that...? So i ask, what does 'giving service' mean? What is that exactly? I dont understand that word, i have been a waitress, so i know what giving service in that kind of setting means.. But, in a D/s? relation? He does not give any explanation, did not tell anything... Offcourse, he does not have to answer, but if you talk about service this and service this, it seems logical to also explain what 'service' means to him? I dont know his definition of that word.... Is being 'in service' the same as being 'in training'? To me, it sounds like there is just a one way road, him getting what ever he demands, and she? aah, well...... You see what i mean? I can be very, very wrong about it. I just wanted to know......?! Now all of the sudden, he reacts with i must be nicer, (?) and maybe then i can get some chance to offer my submission or some talk like that..... Huh? What? I just wanted to know, what 'being in service' means? To him. I have a bit of a difficulty with 'being nicer'....... They only say that to women, never to a guy. I dont dó nice, i do being me. Strange reaction, i had the hope, i could have had a good, open intelligent conversation about SM and what kind of relation form works for him and why that is. Oh, well, water under the bridge. |
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A strange way to end a conversation, it was like he felt being attacked or something like that.....? To me, is dont 'give service', i submit my D, (after we really get to know each other) and by submitting i do stuff for him, out of care and love and surrender to his rules..... Is thát 'giving service'? 
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Very nice
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I think asking that question is the right thing to do. It is a way of getting to know his understanding of the dynamics of D/s. I often say I am serving Sir or I am in service to him. That to me just means I am submitting to his wants and needs when we are playing. Like if a guy comes in my cam room and asks me to watch his cam, I will often respond that I do not watch cams while serving my Sir. Sir knows my boundaries and would never cross them, so we have spoken a lot. The term "serving" is basically my being submissive to him in a sexual connotation. You found parts of me I didn’t know existed and in you I found a love I no longer believed was real.
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2/3/2020 7:45 am |
very nice
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rosa I am glad it is "water under the bridge" Sounds like another wanking loser!  A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw Jenny
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Thank you! punkin, I learned something new!
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jenny, ah, well, it was just conversation, i think he did not liked me asking all those questions.. What ever.....
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