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3 messages, I cant read profiles. I get sometimes messages from men from witch i have doubts about their goals, for being on here.... Their sincerity. I mean, you, they, he, have offcourse their right to just be here, to get laid. With as many women as they can get in contact with. Preferable, bare back, offcourse! from the first contact on.....  amp;Right? I mean, who cares? Right!? And in the mean time, call themselfs; Alpha-Male-Lonely-Wolf-Dominant....? Or what ever, other over the top, nonsense name... Mister50shadeofgrey... LMAO, ROFL. MarquiestheSade the Third?  But, since i am not here to get fucked... At least not in the first xx messages! (never liked the 'online'... what ever, dont understand it) Maybe, later, much, much, later, If there is an emotional connection If i like him, can laugh with him, Knów him, understands how his brain, mind works.... If he understands how i tick.... Who i am.... I have doubts about their sincerity..... And almost always my doubt is proven right. Never mind. They always give themselfs away. Almost within the first 3 messages. Pathetic, dont you think? Is it bad of me, to i think of them, as loser/vanilla?! Have no intention to put any effort into the contact, at all. Like spoiled little 3 year olds.... They just want you to lay down immediatly, with your legs wide open, mouth too, or what ever their current fantasy is. Oh, and an other strange, give a way thing; you 'talk' with them on here, send messages, But, almost always their second question is; Are you on.... KIK, or hangouts or what ever other....?! Whát is Hangouts? Any way? Why? Lord? Why?  ,Time wasters.  ,  , 
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ciao, bella! 
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3/13/2020 1:29 am |
Lol, i get and understand your frustration Rosa, but at the same time i did have a giggle at your writing. There are one or two decent ones here, who are actually into BDSM and not here for sex, but sadly far and few between. I am basically just here to chat to decent Doms, gain some more insight into the Dom perspective, 99.9% live to far away for anything else. Actually, when i read the main feed, that is all one sees, men wanting sex, now and again one finds a gem, as i found out the other day. Have a good one 
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Rosa, There are so many fakes on here, both in the role of sub and dom/me. It is basically people screaming for attention, trying to be something they are not to simply get what they need, be it sex, or just for attention. There are those here who have nothing outside of begging for attention online because they are invisible in their own lives, or the lives they truly live are so toxic that they can create fantasy personalities online. Alas reality always has a way of revealing itself. Hangouts is a video/calling program though G mail. You can also chat via text as well. In some instances I can feel for the guys who want to move to hangouts/kik/skype so quickly. There are so many fake women on here these programs offer a way to validate the women are real. But....there is a need for there to be a connection, some kind of interest before asking, unless it is all simply for sport. A challenge to get women on cam to validate, or prove they are fakes....or they just want cam sex. There are some horrible human beings on alt, well on the internet. People who present themselves one way, but are completely different, who are just seeking, money, sex, attention, whatever they can get. Playing the victim, or the perfect sub/dom, just to get whatever it is they want. The least developed as human, sentient beings, emotional equipped adults find this almost like their pasture...looking to feed and stay here for a while. Those who are actually looking for something/someone have to wade through those people to find what we are looking for. I sincerely hope you find your person. As the old saying goes, you have to kiss a lot of frogs to find your prince, it is just such a shame you have to wade through endless annoying gnats to even get to the frogs You found parts of me I didn’t know existed and in you I found a love I no longer believed was real.
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3/13/2020 4:36 am |
Hmmmm. Dealing with the detritus of humanity does affect one's perception. Still my response makes me an outlier. I simply do not fit neatly under a curve. I end interaction when the first demand is to go off this site. My goal is to see a person IRL - it is the only reliable filter to find a real person. Then continue chat to discover one another before offering consent to become intimate. Yes, I am here for gratification while becoming vulnerable myself. Oh well, happy Friday, I will continue hunting for gems - they are precious to me.
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3/13/2020 5:16 am |
Totally understand it. So many fakers on here.. i have given up on looking and just read blogs. I'm an old school kinda guy where manners and respect are high up.. But people still take my kindness for weakness.. and then run off when i'm fed up with their BS lol. Good luck.
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Good grief that was funny, even though I realize that wasn’t your intent. 👏👏👏
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Mrdavid! That was my intention! Hahaha, too It is such a sad, sad, pathetic way to 'advertise' yourself, dont you think?
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LRD2V8, Yes, they live in their porn fantasy and want to get "graped/ dominere" immediatly, And dominere the way they want it, how they want it, when they want it, fantasy land! and nothing more! Thank you for visiting my blog,
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Sbxx22, Yes, first get some sort of connection, "feel" for that person, here, online. Meeting them in public is not a garantee you deal with a sane , stable person, at all. The storys i can tell! That has nothing to do with kissing frogs anymore! More with some sort of asylum forgot to close their doors and let the madmen out! Yes, meeting in public, writing more, with each other, and meeting, keep meeting each other, before you get out of your clothes! At least for 3 months getting to know each other! With clothes on!
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sub_nouveau, I just asked him his view on BDSM or if he just was into the kinky fuckery, NSA. Silence was my answer! i totally agree with how you wanted to be approached.
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Daddyslilpunkin, But, but, but...., that is just soo shallow?? How.... ? oh well, never mind... I think, for some? or a lot of people, psychotherapy wont be a bad choice! for some years, please! You learn soo much, about who you are, what makes you happy and such.... Oké, Hangouts? Through Gmail? Hell, no! Thank you for explaining this to me. I was once on KIK, my god, such shallow nonsense talk, to get each other horny games. Bleagh!  Boooring!! Indeed, annoying gnats it is! I am thankfull for my very active intuïtion, there is not much what can come through that. I get jaded, you know, since 2009 i am on sites like this, FET too It is all the same, even on some "vanilla" sites, it is all the same... Boring, sad pieces of human waste products! Oeps!
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Kitkatshadow, i did try to make it a bit funny, so that is alright! On the Dutch 'market' there are not much decent men like that. Mén, i dont even want to call them Dominants, at all Mostly older men, acting like horny 17 year old, with the brain activity of a mollusc. Or younger men, with a momma complex! M!Y god! how booring! Or men who claim to be able to give me 400 orgasm in a hour! Or such nonsense, Who cares? Did i even ask for that? No reading skills, too! Booring! ! Pfff, i would like to be challenged by a man, on a mental level! Get into my brain, mind, challenge mé. Did not meet such a person.....yet..... Thanks for your reaction,
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3/13/2020 9:51 am |
Very entertaining read, and unfortunately so true. I never realized women were offered to chat on hangouts as well. I get that all the time in messages on here...give me your number or hangouts email. NO!! It's amazing how many on here think it's all about getting laid as much as possible. Maybe a little spanking or bondage to warm things up. Even a lot of the 'submissives' don't get it.
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SinPerdition, indeed. That is my issue too, there are all those other sex sites, Why do the have to be here? Pester us, with their stupidity? Lack of knowledge, and all that. Probably because they get horny just by the thought to write that 'd' on their profile! Pffff..... I agree with you on the dating or meeting up with a genuine d, or s type. I met one socalled "d"... from here.... a few years ago.... He had already 2 other "subs" and an other woman sitting at home... It made me dizzy, just to listen to all that... What i call a player.... Never mind. Oh! nice! You met your domme! Great! Hahah, try tea an other time! nettle tea!  To be honest, i think it needs a miracle to find a genuine men, dominant from here...!? The blogs are great to read, anyway. That is why i stay here......
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olderdaddy, Thank you, Oh, yes, i get such "offers" too....  They should be banned! Go to friend finders, there you can find someone, you can talk dirty sex talk with, fuck the same night, with a bit ass slapping, nipple twisting on the side... Pffff! They lack all the knowledge about the deeper mental aspects of BD/SM. Or, just human decency, too Ah ,well, reading blogs is great!
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Ms. Rosa, I I've been using the site here now for about 2 months. Consistently anyways. And I share your frustration. I'm constantly flooded with messages from women wanting me to "submit" to them. Or better yet, the attempt to make me feel special by saying they "went over my profile and had to send me a message". And I know they haven't because my profile states that I'm not a gold member and can't respond so not to bother. I admit, I have offered my kik account once, and my hangouts account as a form of communication. (Hangouts is just a chat client that Google owns. Kinda like Facebook Messenger.) It's free to use, I can create a email account to go with it to protect myself and it helps me weed out the scammers. Which has been every "woman" I've spoken to as so far. I only make mention to say that not every invitation to chat from kik or Hangouts is malicious. It's just free and easier. I'm new to this lifestyle. In fact, I'm really just trying to find my footing and see where I fit in, if anywhere. My life up to a certain point was very vanilla. But that doesn't make me a loser. The False-Dom-Lonely Pup guys you refer to would probably be better described as loser/posers. I also understand why you'd be frustrated at the thought of some man expecting you to perform as a blowup doll at their whim. Especially if you don't know him. It takes time to develope the type of relationship desired for that level of intimacy. I believe if a woman would give it up that easily, I don't want it. There are sincere guys here. It just takes time to find us. Believe it or not, we go through the same things you do. We share the frustration and anxiety. And when we find the needle in the haystack, like you, it's worth it. My Just Over 2 Cents, Paul
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Hello Paul, Yes, so many on here, share this same story, men and women alike. I just dont like all that lying stuff, just be honest and say; i just want to fuck you, who you are, i dont really care for, just say when? Then i am able to answer that, plain and clear! Not all that playing around.. ego games..... pretending to bé some sort of character, they are never able to pull off.... Sure, being a vanilla does not make you a loser. A vanilla acting like something he never be albe to pull off, is a loser, in my eyes. I dont have much grey nuances, my bad! Sorry! Yes, there are sincere men and women too, on this site. Some blogs are a prove of that. Great women and men, too Uhm, i did not, yet find that needle..... yet.... Welcome to the strange 'wonders' of ALT Thank you, rosa
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." And when we find the needle in the haystack, like you, it's worth it. " I apologize for miscommunicating. I meant in the sense that just like when you find the needle it will be worth it. Thank you for replying! I enjoy reading your blog. Buona Sera
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