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rosaenaluin 65F
10187 posts
6/29/2020 1:08 pm
Critical?


Fet there was this discussion about, Is it necessary for you that you find the Dominant physical attractive.....

This woman told us, it did not matter much, to her, how her prospect Dominant looked like.....

Is it a sign of being shallow?

If you need some kind of physical attraction, going on, too?

I mean, i have seen man watching my profile, who have more breast then i have!

= not attractive, at all!

I have seen man, with a very bad hair style, like they are still living in the sixties....

How about your personal preferences?

Would you be able to get over those?

I am a big sucker for guys with dark hair and dark eyes too!
My preference is, tall too...
i just love the look, If the rest of the body is in shape too!
offcourse!

But, But, inmaging...
Just along with ...

Inmaging, i get into a conversation, we have a lot background stuff in common.
and more.....

But he has fair hair and my hight.....?

Witch boxes will tick more?

Am i shallow, when i want someone with a certain body style?

I mean, i try to do my best, to stay in shape, dont over eat myself.
Controle my snack urges.
Dont drink, dont smoke,
do my exercises, daily.
I actually expect that too, from the partner.

To keep in shape, for my own good feeling about my body...

And, also it is good for my body, to not be too fat, it is not good for your joints, your blood/ pressure and all other aspects...
( i have been fat, overweight, 30 years ago)

( But, ofcourse there can be exterieur aspects of why you are overweight...)
Medication comes to mind....

So?
How shallow do you thing i am, on a scale from 5 to 10.

wanting a guy i find physical attractive? Too.

Is it the same, with wanting a guy who is well endowed....?

I mean, not all females have to same vulva, vigigi, some are smaller then others,
hence some woman dont like to be penetrated by big cocks, it most probably will hurt them!
Average size, or below average, will do nicely, thank you, for some.

Or, is that whole 'physical attractive' just some neanderthaler vanilla brain washing, still lingering around?

Just wondering... Am i too critical?

rosaenaluin 65F
11090 posts
6/29/2020 1:14 pm

every body has standards, at least i hope!?


InderioMinx 54F  
19868 posts
6/29/2020 1:30 pm

It is not shallow at all. You want what you want and you find certain things attractive. Certain things do *it* for you and some things don't. Unless you are just looking for some specific kink play, you need to find whatever it is that pleases you too. I don't care what side of the slash you are on.

For me, the connection is very important, but I do like my tall boys.

Ars longa, vita brevis - Art is long, life is short


drmgirl622 68F  
26194 posts
6/29/2020 4:21 pm

Shallow doesn't even come in the picture......we each have a style we prefer


jenny14 75T  
90481 posts
6/29/2020 4:34 pm

rosa

I think we each have our Preferences!

For me, mental attraction is more important than physical....

I think this is a great topic! Thanks for raising it


A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


rosaenaluin 65F
11090 posts
6/29/2020 8:35 pm

jenny,
To my, it was and is, always a mixture of those, and mental and a physical attraction.


rosaenaluin 65F
11090 posts
6/29/2020 8:39 pm

InderioMinxs ,

Thank you, i needed that assureance. (?)....
No, iam not looking to fulfill one certain fetish, i want & need The connection and the SM, in one package.


rosaenaluin 65F
11090 posts
6/29/2020 8:44 pm

Sin,
Hahaha, a scarecrow? Great! No, they, he just needs a certain finesse, energy flowing out of him, personality, calmness, too.
A personal taste tells something too! Intellingence shows in many ways....
Thank you for your wise wwords, too.


rosaenaluin 65F
11090 posts
6/29/2020 8:45 pm

Thank you, drmgirl, just needed to hear/ read that...


rosaenaluin 65F
11090 posts
6/30/2020 7:25 am

sub_nouveau,
Indeed, attractive!
Is something else then being "pretty", i dont like "pretty" boys either....
Most of the time, they knów they are pretty and think that gives them some advantage, and a right to be lazy....

How different we all can be in our preferences.

For me it is exactly the opposite, average size is not (big) enough and visting is lovely, BUT, only when there is a deep felt trust and real care for each other in a loving trusting M/s.



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