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Arranged marriage, part due Alright, see if i can get this right, this time..... Uhmm.... I am known in the Arabic part of this little village. Because of me, trying to teach them Dutch and also some Dutch moral codes, we use in this part of the world. I am accepting of their believe system and rules, for women. I am professional in that manner. My opinion is not important, does not matter in this case. I am always friendly to the women, say hello and talk with them, i love to give them compliments about their (religious) clothes.... I love those very long coats, summer dresses too!! want them!! Most of those women are soo resilliant and powerfull, i really like that. So, this woman and i, we got to talk, in their toko, Le souck... Asking me, if i am willing to be her 'baby sitter', for her , on wednesday and maybe some other day too? We talk about men, too. i dont really find that necessary, because.. well, (vanilla) men, what can you say about them?, what is not allready been said...  She asks if i wanted to be married again? i say: nah, men are not thát important in my life. And, look around you, did you see any men, here, who is worth your while? They dont know how to dress, they act like peasants, are rude, sexistic pricks. Cant hold a conversation if that is not entirely focussed on them and their D I C K S.... BORING! WHo wants a man like that?! i not! We talk a bit more and then she says; i am going to get you an arranged marriage! We both laugh about that, real loud. I ask her; do i have something to say in this matter? Oh, yeah! she says, you can decide if you want him or not! Laughing! How can i explain to her, what it is, that i look for in a man? She wont ever understand, and i will be looked upon, as a sick, perverted fuck! Keep your away from that woman! I can never, ever explain to 'vanillas' what i seek in a man..... That makes it very lonely... when vanilla women talk about men or boyfriends, or lovers.... I have nothing to say....... There are more women, who ask me, if i dont want a man in my life again...? Oh, sure i do! BUT, nó vanilla man! ever again. How do i explain that?? I cant open up, about that, ever! If i hear women talk about their boy friend/ partner, talking about how "nice" he is to her, i get sick... Cant stand all that soft talk about how sweet he is, and all that! A puppy/ kitten is "sweet". Sweet is not a character trait suitable for a partner/man/lover, in my eyes. Accountable? Oh! sure! Yes, please, consistent? Absolutely! Oh, YEs! Please! Caring, involved? Absolutely! Sweet? who cares about sweet? So, now i am waiting for that list with suitable men! So i can choose! Whahahaha N O T! i will keep you all informed about the progress of this mirrage...
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Going to make an appointment to meet her children and see if i like it. They are loud! I really dont like that. shouting is not for indoors, unless there is a fire going on! Maybe i can help her, to get a bit discipline into those monsters? I always think about the neighbors, who wants to hear the children of your neighbors the whole day!? shouting and screaming....?
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This arranged marriage thing sounds like quite an adventure 
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You really hit close to home talking about the vanilla woman rosa. Even my Mother.. How do I tell her "sweet" also makes me sick... At least you can reject anyone on the list...  Because I doubt you will find what you are looking for in a arranged marriage..  ~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~
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Sweet men don't really appeal to me either, Rosa ... Honestly I much prefer a BRUTE 
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brandy, Ooh, what do you say??  A BRUTE? it is just a matter of him, taking what is his..... it is as simple as that, to me. (after we got to know each other, as persons, first...)
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drmgirl it scare the living daylight out of me!
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pac, yeah, it is totally useless to discuss such things with vanilla women. you will only lose.... Sometimes i say things like; a 50-ish kind of relation, in wich he is the caring, loving, boss, and wants my opinion, before making a decision... Women look at me, as if i am totally crazy! Who wants thát? Never mind.....
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11/13/2021 11:57 am |
So what is wrong with "sweet"? I hear many, many complaints about brutish doms who don't support or properly care for their subs. "Sweet" can be loving, caring, supportive, endearing, gentle, kind, comforting, pampering, etc. This does not detract from a man being a dom in any way. In fact, to me, that makes him that much more attractive to me. I feel I can trust him and let go with him, submit to him, because I know he will care for me in the end.
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Take care Rosa or it won't be long before you are whisked off to be a member of someone's harem !!!!!! Lol !!!!!
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rosa I can hear what you are saying  I can think of few worse things than arranged marriage  A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw Jenny
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max. i am glad 'sweet" means all those good things to you! My experience with "sweet" (vanilla) man, is that they lack a backbone, want the woman to make all the decisions, be his substitute "mamma".... aka weaklings in my opinion. I can walk all over them, and still they accept it all! Yuck The kind of man, i am talking about is in contact with his emotional inner life. can show emotions, is in controle of his emotions, has a backbone, knows where he wants to go, with the D/s or M/s. Thank you, for your view on this.
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lance! Whahaha, Who knows! Rather not! Nightmare material!!
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jenny, I understand what you are saying! Still, i see women, who are really, genuine happy within their arranged marriage. Have a good emotional bond with their husband. It is possible! ( not for me!)
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