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rosaenaluin 65F
10106 posts
2/13/2022 11:22 am
He called all the way from America,


Joan Armetrading song, great song!

When a man, from the US or The Great Down Under, is contacting me....?
I always ask myself; for what reason?

Is it just to have some "sexy fun", conversation?
Or is he for real?

Most of the time, it is just kiddy play...
So, my reaction is not really serious, at all.

It is more a bit irritated, why bother me?
Why waste my time?

I always want to know their goal, in contacting mé?

Most of the time, that is the moment they decide to go silent on me.
Fine, perfectly clear! Thank you.
Thát is an answer too!

Go listen to that song, i hope some of you, will like it
Utube is your friend.
I love the voice of Joan Armetrading,
she has a bit of a husky, hoarse voice.

rosaenaluin 65F
11025 posts
2/13/2022 11:23 am

Oh, Rosie, is an other one of her great songs!


lancylad 78M
384 posts
2/13/2022 1:30 pm

Joan Armatrading is one hell of a songwriter & singer so something that we agree on Rosa !!!!

She seems to some up all sorts of things from my life like she knows me !!!! Lol !!!!


drmgirl622 68F  
26119 posts
2/13/2022 2:31 pm

She has such a distinct voice


brandygirasol 55T
9434 posts
2/13/2022 6:08 pm

Rosa I think before he realized where you live he went GaGa for you and then his eyes glazed over.. 🤪


alwaysassertive 64M

2/13/2022 6:29 pm

Perhaps you're proceeding too quickly. Maybe the goals and objective are contingent on how well the contact goes. I never divulge what all of my options are. I don't any man that would.

If I contact a woman and the first thing she wants to know is what are end results i'm expecting. I'm going to think she's Wacko, Jacko.

I know that when I'm speaking to a woman. She isn't going to be presented with all the options that I have available to me, and why should she?(rhetorical question) Each would be discussed when we reached that point in time, if ever.

My intentions would always be to proceed slowly and get to know someone. If there's chemistry then we could discuss what obstacles are present and formulate the best solutions for resolving them.

Responding to indiscriminate questions before establishing some kind of relationship is a big turn off, and wouldn't happen.

When the first thing a man hears is what do you hope to gain? What is your purpose in contacting me? How do you hope to achieve anything with me and establish a relationship? Most "men" would be saying fuck this, and go poof.

Unless the man is a player and just wants to jack off to your voice. There are protocols we follow. There's no such thing as going from point A to point B unless she's just a fuck, and that could be all she is to him.

I really don't expect women to understand this, but a man will.

I'm not trying to justify anything, only to elaborate.

I can be responsible for how I act and for what I say, but I'm not responsible for how someone reacts to what I say or my behavior. That's all their choice.


rosaenaluin 65F
11025 posts
2/13/2022 11:43 pm

Natalie_

Yeah, thats what i mean...


rosaenaluin 65F
11025 posts
2/13/2022 11:45 pm

lance,
ooh, nice!
Yeah, she is.
Her songs helped me through dealing with sadness and loss...
Love her lyrics😍


rosaenaluin 65F
11025 posts
2/13/2022 11:46 pm

brandy,
Whahahaha!
you must be kidding! 🤣😘


rosaenaluin 65F
11025 posts
2/13/2022 11:50 pm

always,

it is a conversation, and in order to get to know him, this is just one part, i like to know...
Among a whole lot of other things...
I dont jump that question on him!

I can be very subtle, you know... 😊🙏😉


Artschoolgrad 47M
8730 posts
2/15/2022 5:34 am

my favorite is: Down to Zero


rosaenaluin 65F
11025 posts
2/16/2022 5:14 am

Arts,
ooh, i totally forgot that song.
Yeah, that one is great too!
Willow is an other one, i really love to sing...
(only knowing halve the text.. does not matter the joy it gives me)



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