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Being too direct? I was talking with this woman, on an other sm site It was all very personal. Talked about some very deep intimate stuff, experiences... That was good, BUT, Then, i made the mistake to being TOO open about somethings.... That was the end of the conversation. All i did was speak my mind about some parts of the socalled dutch 'scene'... \ It was not a personal attack, it was just in general some comments on how things go...in the Dutch scene....in general..... I am sorry she took it all personal, or at least that is what i think.... I am sorry she did not asked about this, kept the conversation open.... It is not easy, when you/ i am rather black and white in some matters....  How much nuance can you handle, without losing all colours? |
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Being outspoken is sometimes a burden.... Rather have to keep my big mouth shut! 
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You should never keep your mouth shut. Always speak your mind and express yourself, the people you are left with are the ones that matter, they choose to be with you. Don't worry about it too much, it's their problem, not yours
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4/7/2022 4:47 am |
you did nothing wrong
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4/7/2022 5:05 am |
I dodnt think tht is wrong
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Rosa, I personally think that it is right to be outspoken and direct. How else are we going to get what we want? xxxx
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Being open and honest with someone is never a bad thing!
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Being open with someone who is in the lifestyle shouldn't be an issue!
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Some people have thin skins and don't want to hear what they don't believe
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Rosa at least we all know where we stand with you & very nice it is too !!!!!!
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the conversation was as it should've been for at least one of you...you...as for the other...GTFO. Expression in this or any other construct should be allowed by both parties unless one is malicious with intent. And I don't think you were. Keep rockin the online convos.
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4/7/2022 8:04 pm |
I can't say one way or the other since I don't know the details of the conversation. Since I don't have the facts I'm unable make an informed decision one way or the other. Perhaps you were feeling too familiar with a stranger and that conversation would have been best between friends that accept each other. I don't know, but if you want to tell me something in confidence some time you may, and your privacy will be respected..
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always, We talked about the bad fish, in the SM pound in Holland... The dangerous creeps, the consent violations, the narcistic/ etc.... We had a pretty intimate conversation going on... or at least i thought so...?  ...BUt, i think, i overstepped some unknown, to me, line..... self/ critical thinking is not always very appreciated, i guess...
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Cockand, I am known to be a bit blunt at times... cough!  Never learned to be subtie, beat about the bush... sugarcoating... and all those fine social codes...
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Swtt, Thank you, Good to hear this.
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So true, Kitcat
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drmgirl, i said what i think, of the socalled dutch "scene"... ahum, cough....that went not down, very well, by this woman....
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rondiri. There is some true in what you say! Thank you!
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lance, Hahaha, thank you, so much! Much appreciated!
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WhiteDom, No! not malious, just very clear and direct...
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To those i forgot to mention, All thank you for your supportive words... 
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