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In a conversation? Some time ago, i was in a conversation with this man. It was all very theoretical, from his side.... All in general wordings, so i asked about his real life experience, that all the theory talk was "nice"/ NOT And that i now was interested in his real life play/ or D/s experience.... How many, or not, submissives did he meet, did he had a long time contact with them? Was it all about the sex games? You get the drill. the silence is very, very loud! funny, dont you think? Those guys are soo very predictable.... And soo terrible tiresome. |
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Yawn.......... I am still thinking, i must be doing something wrong......? 
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10/21/2022 1:32 pm |
We all start some place
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Unfortunately it is very common, on all platforms. Yes, we all start or started somewhere, but you don't have to lie about your experience level. Lots of people use their imagination as their guide in approaching people.
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I'm sure most people just fantasize.
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10/21/2022 3:10 pm |
of course lying is never warrnted. The original ost makes not suggestion that she was lied too. In fact when she askes how much experience the gentlaman has he becomes quiet
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Rosa the light always finds & shines on the truth! thou l share your frustration don’t push don’t try just be you & wait...he’ll cuM!
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HighValue, Sure, Starting with lies wont get you anywhere... so why do that? All fantasy talk... I wont mind, as long as the person is honest, about his level of knowledge and or "experience".. if he does not have much "experience" - just be honest!
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gibb, I, too, dont have much fresh "experience" i educate myself, that is of much importance, then experiences. Especially, on Fetlife, there is a lot of knowledge to be aware of... I want a D/s power exchange, not some kinky sex in the bedroom, once in a while.... Knowing what #you# want and need is as much important, i believe ....
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drmgirl, Yes, i believe that, too
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Peter, What is that all about? Eggs? Prince? It looks like you are projecting some of your own (bad?) experiences on my blog? My, oh, my.... you do you.
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bdsmDOMdaddy, Smiles warmly, Thank you, for your encouraging words. I almost lost my interest in who ever claims to BE dominant.... what ever . .. Talk to the hand, kind of thing... 🤨🙄😴
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Bravado is the only weapon a man can yield strongly - perhaps if he had explained the few moments he had and how he feels he could have improved, then perhaps he could be encouraged to be better ........ but I doubt it. D-J xx
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Actions speak louder, and gets one closer to what you want... more so than words. Maybe don't talk about it, flirt, get into the action and take it where you want it to go... Someone did in the first place to get us all here...
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Yes, D-J, i agree, totally.....
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likeithot, "gettting into action", got me on the wrong site of this all, with permanent injury to show for. That is not going to happen, again, ever.... In my view, that is never safe. first have to build trust, friendship, really knowing who that other person IS, before any action, ever going to happen.... I want the connection, first.
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rosa As high said, we all must start somewhere and I was upfront with whom I began A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw Jenny
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jenny, Sure, i too, dont have much 'experience... and i am honest about that.' It is the mindset, i am most interested in, not as much as the "experiences"- because those "experiences" were not with mé. So...? He, like me, would have to start from scratch with me, / and i with him. Learning from each other, AFTER we negotiated, the what, how, why and where... and so on.
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