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I think, most subs/ doms on fet, dont like me, Not that it really matters much, I mean, we dont have much in common, on the D/s - M/s or the SM scale.... They and i move on very different universe / level I only find it strange, or very obvious, (?) that no ones likes to talk to, or with me..? I mean, i understand that playing the bedroom role, can be real great fun, and it can liberate them from many sexual inhibitions. Wich is great! Ofcourse! an sich. It must be great too, to act out all kind of sexal fantasies. I mean, i can see that. To me, that has nothing to do, with having, building a D/s or a M/s, dynamic, relation. To me, that is -just- sex, or sexual acts. I cant see how that has something to do, with building a D/s or an M/s dynamic/ relation. It are -just - all sexual actions. There is no fundament of power exchange/transfer. To me, it is just fun in the bedroom, wich is great, ofcourse! Agreed up on, fun. This for that. I mean, i dont begrudge peope their sexual fun or release moments I mean, who am i, to even think such thing I dont! To me, what they are doing, has no power transfer in them, what so ever... Who am i to judge? I dont I see the difference, very clearly. And i dont play games and i dont pretend. At a munch, talking with this and that person, sitting all around a table introducing yourself, including your SM/ D/s orienation, i told them, i AM submissive, it is not something i do, it is not a role i take on, it is something i am born to, to me, it also has not much to do, with sex. The whole table felt silent, looked at me, all got very nervous, started talking all together, at the same time, again, and from there on, they ignored me. Thát happened soo many time, when talking with people at munches. On the other hand, having men tell me they are dominants, but are not able to make or hold eye contact? Or initiate a conversation, that is about something else then anything sex/ kink/ or porn / swingers club related. I have the feeling, that i am repeating myself, so i quit. Dont know, when i will be back....  Have bissy days ahead, have to killl my lovely Larch! 
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advise about how to kill a tree about 15 meters high, or more, is very appreciated! I am already pruning branches down, So it would be easier to climb in the tree, to cut down more branches. Want to put a wedge in somewhere, so the tree will tumble down..... Maybe two wedges in different places?
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be careful with the tree . tree-limbs tend to be heavier than they look . going little by little is a good way . then take the trunk down from the top in smaller chunks . little by little 
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I likes you, but you already know that Rosa! I am assuming no tree trimming services by you. The important thing is to make sure the roots have been dug out as deeply as possible.
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advise about how to kill a tree about 15 meters high, or more, is very appreciated! I am already pruning branches down, So it would be easier to climb in the tree, to cut down more branches. Want to put a wedge in somewhere, so the tree will tumble down..... Maybe two wedges in different places?
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I really IS all about finding a mental connection first, and the other things will fall into place. We cannot be all things to all people, and it only takes just one. In my own case, my first instinct is to make any new acquaintance laugh. That might not necessarily seem, to some, a part of a b/d relationship, but that's "what I do." The others can take it or leave it; if they leave it, well, that's their problem.
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you're your authentic self. Seems pretty good to me
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if you wedge a tree, start with your cut and pound in your wedge, then put in a thicker wedge alongside to get it to fall where you want it.
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I certainly like you. You are authentic. I woudl not follow you if I did not think you were a good person. "One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"
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some tree services will take out a tree for free if it can be used as lumber. Call around and ask or sometimes just advertise free firewood if you cut down tree.
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What she said..... 
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I enjoy reading your posts
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Rosa fuK ‘em be you & rock don’t let them get to you! as you say they’re only there for the NSA fuckery which is fine but it’s not the emotional connection you seek so why go?! unless to be in the local bdsm scene gain insight w others & be voyeur but they ignore & shun you so fuK that & fuK them!
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Fet is an over rated porn dump. Some add you just for the numbers .
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Cranky, OOh? Really? It just has a totall different lay out, purpose and there is porn dump on all sites about SM and D/s - sex.
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bdsmDM Thank you! for uplifting my mood! About the socalled "scene".... bleagh!
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drmgirl I am thankfull for that!
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YearningforMdom / melt I dont like all folks, everywhere... I know... i know.... but when am i going to find those folks? I dont see them on those munches, i dont find them on fet. Were? And when, will that ever going to happen?  I am glad i have some nice contacts on here, though... 
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curiousity, Thanks! i know some lumber men, somewhere, here, have to ask him. I can lend a big, long ladder, from a neighbour, some doors to the left... lol I diid put a big tree down, some time ago, some gardens ago, No big deal.
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DD Thánk you, I really appreciate that!
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bossman, Thánk you, for that great advice! I want first, to cut the head, top out of the tree, and most branches. They are in the way to really be able to get to the trunk, cut down most branches. and from there on, go down, bit by bit
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boh, Thánk, you! i really appreciate it,
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Robert, Yes, that is a great way, to make a good contact TO be able to laugh with each other,( and at each other) is very deep, in my world.
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ameenah, I agree, sure, sex will be a part of the whole, i hope. BUT, When their first and only concern is, if they will get any?? Please!  Same here, no reading ability, one hand typing kind of "dominants"... Most of the times, when i get a message, with such a content, i dont even take the time to write back. Because, one character trait of that type of person, is that they can become very violent, verbally, rude, when i dont want to fit in their little fantasy world. just an other one, on the no-go, -no can do- list Yes, it would be great when the fetishes are alined, it is also a matter of give and take, it is, first, for sure, a relation. Thank you, for your reaction. That means a lot to me.
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melt, Thank you, i think i will let go of that idea of a wedge..... Too much work....Maybe even a whee bit too dangerous, to do on my own. Yes, it is realy a pitty some of you, dont live closer by So you could help me, with this one! I did bring a large tree down, on my own, before, no worries. That only almost went wrong, when 'friends' tried to help me, without knowing what they were doing, not consulting me, befóre they did what they did! it was about 3 milimeter, figuratively speaking, between me and the big branche... i jumped out of the way! Mad like hell! I know i am a bit "on the wild side"; cough! LOL and i know, how to be more foccussed, more one step, by step...
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ARomanticSadist, I know! Thank you! I like you too! Indeed, i dont want those guys stomping around in my garden. not only killing that tree, but a lot of other plants, too. I 'talk' with my plants,  so i also 'talk' with this tree... Those guys just are bissy on their job on hand, and i understand that, too. Oh, i wanted to leave the tree trunk in the ground, make it a feedling table for the birds!
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msfunfor, Two minds think alike! :--)) Yes, that is my plan too, just take it easy! one step at the time, take a lot of breaks and look! really look! calculate ! I did this before, with a large tree, with more branches, three tree trunks in one, style of tree, totally out of controle, growth... A lot of work, I loved it! Thank you, for your advice!
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The struggle is real. Most people are hit and run. But you’ve known that now for a while. Giving up isn’t an answer, nor dwelling on disappointment. I like you, read you and truly hope a sincere dominant recognizes your heart and claims it.
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Thank you, sadiedolie. I hope for that, too.😚 I am most of the time, in shock, about how shallow, some people are.... I aways, think, when they are getting older, they will stay ever so lonely- and, most probably , still will blame it on "the other(s)" ....(did not learn, on the way) I see that happen in the Dutch scene.....🤔
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