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rosaenaluin 65F
9923 posts
12/2/2022 12:47 am
I have to confess,


The frist time i heard about the
LHBTQIA +... i got confused...
I was wondering why.....

After some thoughts, i knew this was very, very necessary
Our thoughts and brainwashed ways of thinking about sexuality and orientation
MUST change.

The times of only two choices are gone and hopefully far, far behind us.

It is time, to end the authority, obviousness of the hetero / male? female? orientated view on sexuality.

Why be afraid for a far wider, maybe even far healtier ways of thinking about peoples orientation?

Why whould it be necessary to feel attacked?
When someone does not want to be hold to one thing
be a woman?
be a man?
Why not accept that there are more ways to express yourself?

On a personal note about this;
When i have to fill in papers of an official character, they always want to know if i am a woman or a man>?
While my sexe does not have to do one bit, with what ever i ask a permit for?
It is sexistic grap!

I while ago i used a more male sounding, orientated name, and it made a hell of a difference, with how i was approached by official organisations,
because they assumend i was a guy......
Just saying....

LHBTQIA+,

Life is about accepting, embracing all the changes that comes a long...
Dont feel attacked, because other folks dont fit that tight two choices mold in life...

Be happy for those who feel the way they do, and have now more room to express those ways, true to their being.

The only thing is, i always forget one or two letters of that abbreviation, sorry for that, i promiss i do my utmost best.

rosaenaluin 65F
10841 posts
12/2/2022 12:49 am

Just some thoughts about this whole opposition against something i see as totally natural.


likeithot19 62M
5739 posts
12/2/2022 4:21 am

Life is about accepting, embracing all the changes that comes a long...
Exactly without repercussions from others because you stayed true to your own path!


brandygirasol 54T
9369 posts
12/2/2022 5:25 am

Rosa Dear I never get hung up on titles I call myself a faggot sissy girly boi.... Ha💋


Rowena_H_of_A 38F
363 posts
12/2/2022 11:11 am

I love what you have wrote rosenaluin! People have forgotten who they are, 'People' simple as that. But when it comes to sex or race, it all changes and it should not. That is just what we enjoy, what feels good to each of us. We are all different and that is what makes us so special.
Your words, 'Life is about accepting, embracing all the changes that comes a long...' and 'Be happy for those who feel the way they do, and have now more room to express those ways, true to their being.' are so hopeful.


kajira belongs to Master Adomis4u2


drmgirl622 68F  
25884 posts
12/2/2022 11:51 am

Being a lesbian, this resonates with me but it does get very complicated at times.


rondiri 64M
11040 posts
12/2/2022 2:50 pm

I wish more American's agreed with you. The Conservatives are trying to do away with the rights of anyone not hetero. It's really disturbing.


rydermantel 68M
23776 posts
12/2/2022 4:58 pm

    Quoting rondiri:
    I wish more American's agreed with you. The Conservatives are trying to do away with the rights of anyone not hetero. It's really disturbing.
I agree with you. They are mixing politics and religion. That is something the foundling fathers did not want or so they say. Europeans came to North America to escape religious persecution. I wonder if they even teach that in school anymore.


likesmatures 55M
4794 posts
12/2/2022 6:09 pm

Not pressing...but what is so wrong about being a woman or man?

As a man.,I'm bigger,,it literally is my job to protect.

Even if it means my life..

I am happy to surrender my own if it means saving a woman or kids.
And it doesn't matter if it's my wife,my kids,my mom etc..
Or a random stranger..

My role as a male is to help

To be a man means giving your all to protect..

And honestly..if I can save another..

I did my job..

As a man


rosaenaluin 65F
10841 posts
12/3/2022 11:14 am

brandy,
i did not expect anythin else from you!
You are true to your own being! and i love you for that!


rosaenaluin 65F
10841 posts
12/3/2022 11:17 am

drmgirl,
I am glad it resonates with you, and, i can inmaging that being a lesbian in a hetero world can get complicated.... at times.


rosaenaluin 65F
10841 posts
12/3/2022 11:21 am

rondiri
Yes, they want to go back to the Dark ages!
scary shit!!
No womens right, no homosexuality, no gender fluid, no afro-american rights,
Only the white heterosexual male has rigths! amp;

OLD People who are too afraid to grow? Let go of old ways?
I dont know......


rosaenaluin 65F
10841 posts
12/3/2022 11:22 am

likeithot.
Thank you!


rosaenaluin 65F
10841 posts
12/3/2022 11:27 am

Rowena,
Aah, you are very sweet, yes i agree.

For some folks, who always have been the standard, feel attacked by this whole new scale of possibilitys, or orientation, or wanting to express their own sexuality.
without too many boxes to have to fit in
be pushed in.
There are more choises then being a male or a female orientation..
DIfficult as it may see, for some...


rosaenaluin 65F
10841 posts
12/3/2022 11:31 am

ryderman
Those folks that came to the americans, where no longer wanted here, because they became a bit too fanitical in their religious believe system, and "we" overhere, wanted them out!
Gone backwards, this seems to me....

But, that is not what my wriiting is about
It is about a more broader view on sexuality, on male/ female orientation...
Non binair and all that....


rosaenaluin 65F
10841 posts
12/3/2022 11:36 am

likesmatures,

There is nothing wrong, with being and feeling totally oke, with being a man.
This is about be, or try to be more open about more, other orientations.

I love a man, who is cable and wiling to protect me, or other persons.

Some folks just dont feel comfortable with just the two choices.
they want to explore their own way of expressing their being, not hang up, on their genitals


jenny14 75T  
90125 posts
12/3/2022 6:50 pm

rosa

A great post! Yes, we must accept people as they are!

Now, when asked my gender on Forms, I put, "non- binary"!


A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


rosaenaluin 65F
10841 posts
12/4/2022 7:48 am

jenny,
ooh, what a great idea.
I, most of the time, just dont put anything in.

Ignore it. or ask, why does it matter to do things i asked about, what my gender is?
Why should it matter?!



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