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reverse psychology, This person, contacted me, on the other site. Right from the start he wanted to go to private mail.... "Because he had not enough space on that site, to write what ever his story was....., Sure?!  Right from the start. Diid not introduce himself, So, i told him, we are arguing about this from the start AND you still did not answer my qeustions. He inmediately went in attack mode! It was all my problem, fault, i needed to trust him. With only ONE message exchange?? RIGHT RED FLAG! rUN WHILE YOU CAN! i suggested to go to FETLIFE OR HERE, But no! He sugested he made a mail adress wich i could use and he too and that was it Laughable, Dont you think? Not one message about how are you NOTHING! And then he came wit the blame game! Ooh, boy! I think this was a prime example of a narcistic or border line personality syndrome. Unbelievable. He roams around here, too. Right from the start he started claiming, Try to decide what i should do and act. NOT.ONE. QEUSTION! just get full on, in attack.... creep! That is what narcistic / borderline personality syndrome do, ALways full in attack Try to make you insecure, telling you, your rights are no rights ,you have it totally WRONG! Only he knows "the truth", can i puke, please! Soo, terrible predictable Just an other lesson, i already did learn, a long time ago! If i was not that strong and did not have a real indepth schooling about how this works, He could have easely dragged me into his sick, perferted games Because, HE NEVER DOES ANYTHING WRONG! It is ALL to blame on the submissive. always! Hé is the holy man of sm and kink and d/s or m/s or just here to destroy women.... The venom with wich he reacted on my refusal,to go to an other medium..... I stayed all very civilised, explained it all Did not get angry only in the end, i was soo done with him! |
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Be AWARE OF THIS GEEZER. hE IS BAD NEWS!
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12/17/2022 11:08 am |
The amazing thing is why an inteligent lady like you wasted so much time with him.
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befiirm Yeah, that is what i am wondering, too..... I like to see the whole picture of his mental state..... Scary like hell, asit is...... KNow thay enemy
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For some its a matter of being rejected
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For some its a matter of being rejected rosaenaluin is very correct in know you enemy...."Sun Tzu said Know the enemy and know yourself in a hundred battles you will never be in peril. When you are ignorant of the enemy but know yourself, your chances of winning or losing are equal. If ignorant both of your enemy and of yourself, you are certain in every battle to be in peril."  
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unfortunately Rosa too many idiots anywhere you go online it’s best not to engage or encourage them unless you wanna mess w them & turn the tide around on them?!
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truth is best for those things.
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Nope....I don't go offsite..I don't send pics .. And nothing worse than a wanna be Dominant w obvious anger/ control issues
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likematuress, Indeed, my anwer too! Only AFTER, I met you, we talked and talked some more, i might, just might, go in private mail Maybe! After three months or something like that! NO patience? I know enough.
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befrim Thank you, for that qeustion. I will ignore them, from now on. Their methods are soo transparent....
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drmgirl, Really? wow!! i know......
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melt, Well, i am afraid, some not knowlegdeble woman will fall for his fantasy and hatred.... Think with their pink parts... and get in a whole lot of trouble. Hurt, damaged for the rest of her life. 
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bdsmd, I think, i will stick to what befrim said...... ignore, block.
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rosa I hope this is widely read and others, less experienced, learn from your wisdom! A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw Jenny
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boh, The "truth" is something very strange for a narcistic, borderline person They wil turn everything around, untill you dont know, where your back is, or your front Very good manipulators!
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melt, If you, as a s type person, dont recognise a narcistic personality, because they can be extremely social and friendly, when they need it to be... You could fall for this shit, not knowing one thing, about FIRST, showing respect for that person and her bounderies.. About showing interest in The Person. Once in the web of those folks it is very, very hard to get out of it. The can manipulate you, into a mental case, twisting everything around, in that way diminishing your own worth, own world image., everything, also the chance is present to become 'a stockholm' person....addict Seen it happening with a friend, cried my eyes out, not being able to help... Whén you get out, of such a contact/ relation, you are hurt / changed for the rest of your life..
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jenny ,Thank you,
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bdsmd, Yeah, well, before, you did. could meet you potential partner in church, sportsclub, or other social activities..... There were other folks around, made it a bit more safe.... Now, especially after this corona hoax, that almost all fall on their ass....? No social cohercing anymore..... Not being a groups person... does not help either.
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