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Oh, you have such an "interesting profile", pretext... That is what some men, on here, tell me. When they contact me... Through the years, i have learned that that, most of the times, mean; " I really dont have a cleu what you are all about", ánd frankly, i dont give a shit, but i can at least pretend to be "interested"- who knows? Maybe i can fuck you......  amp;  BORING. Those men, are such a cheap cunt! Sorry, for the foul language, sometimes i am done, playing "nice".... Say it like it is! Such a show of a very, very lazy vanilla guys, hunting for cunt.. nothing more, nothing less.... And, think i cant see right through their little games..... 
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Say it like it is. 
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reading the profile isn't possible for some, but I don't think most do it either.
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mostly seen fake profile....
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you always speak your mind Rosa no misunderstanding you unless you’re of the mentally challenged kind! lol
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Yes Rosa Dear not only do they not read profiles but their idea of being DOM means they get their dick sucked whenever they want- that's ALL they know about the BDSM scene... Ha🤪
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brandy And being proud of their "knowledge" too  And, offended, when i tell them; no thank you! Boring! predictable!! Boring!!
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Peter, i really have no idea what you are rambling about.... This is NOT a sex site, to everyone, on here! BDSM DOES NOT EQUAL SEX! Pffffff.... It is an ALTERNATIVE LIFESTYLE as they advertise, themselfs.
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boh, I know! But, at least you can read some of it, when you watch their profile, and most of the times, that says it all! this guy his profile name is cuntdick...   amp;Or something like that.... How inspiring! NOT
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bdsmd, Thanks, What ever that was about...? have a nice evening!
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slaveRam, Yes, most are, but the bloggers are real, you might not like what they are writing about, but that is something totally different. you DONT have to read all those blogs. i dont read a lot of blogs, either i have my preferences, like i think almost all people have??
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I meant that only a Jerry’s poster child kid doesn’t understand you & where your coming from thinking they’ll get laid w you (nothing wrong w that stick to your guns!) lol
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Rosa, Details boggle some minds. So little time.
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I just love how straight forward you are, Rosa. I find it hilarious when a man messages me , and I launch into the "what interests you in my profile" and then wait for the pathetic excuses .......... just hope one day I'll get to talk to a sincere gentleman who wants to learn more, rather than just have sex. D-J xx
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bdsmd, Oh, alright, thanks for explaining.
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ryder, Yeah.....
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davina, Thank you! That is a great way to react, too! I must remember it!! This one, came with some lame story about what he likes in life and want to share with friends... ( friends, mind you, not with me) block is my dearest friend, in such cases.... Yes, that moment would be a very nice surprise!
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t was just my thoughts that I communicated, hasty... now it's done.. I know my way and I am aware of what kind of side I am on.... These are my thoughts, the questions I ask myself, no criticism or condemnation....., just thoughts... I like reading here and with interest.... and a comment (whether it's suitable and correct? ) What is bdsm??? That's what I'm wondering, and what's the definition? Every single blogger here would come up with a different definition! I want to make one thing clear here: I am not a cathedral and have never called myself one! The question that occupies me: what is a cathedral and what is a macho...??? Are both "gentlemen"? These are just catchphrases, in a nutshell....WHICH WILL LEAD TO HOURS OF DISCUSSIONS...Hmmm...I could say goodbye now and wait for the discussion to end... But! Who would discuss here and what would the result be??? What is BDSM and why is EVERYONE trying to find their own definition? This is my basic idea (as a passive partner) 2 years ago a woman asked me to take care of her (68 years old), I refused and pointed out her age and the risks... A year later she died....(You think further...?) So... That's just a thought too, an idea, my brain input... and every once in a while I'll make a silly comment... (Es waren nur meine Gedanken die ich kommuniziert habe,voreilig...nun ist es geschehen.. Ich kenne meinen Weg und bin mir bewusst auf was für einer Seite ich bin.... Das sind meine Gedanken,die Fragen die ich mir stelle,keine Kritik oder Verurteilung.....,einfach Gedanken...Ich lese hier gerne und mit Interesse....und mal ein Kommentar(Ob der geeignet und richtig ist ?) Was ist BDSM??? Das frage ich mich,und was ist die Definition?? Jeder einzelne Blogger hier würde eine andere Definition finden! Eine Sache möchte ich hier klarstellen: Ich bin kein Dom und habe mich auch nie so bezeichnet! Die Frage die mich beschäftigt:Was ist ein Dom und was ist ein Macho...??? Sind beide "Herren" ? Das sind nur Schlagwörter,kurz ausgesprochen....DIE ZU STUNDENLANGEN DISKUSSIONEN FÜHREN...Hmmm...Ich könnte mich jetzt verabschieden und das Ende der Diskussion abwarten... Aber! Wer würde hier Diskutieren und was währe das Ergebnis??? Was ist BDSM und warum versuchen ALLE ihre eigene Definition zu finden? Das ist mein Grundgedanke,(als passiever Teilhaber) Vor 2 Jahren hat mich eine Frau gebeten mich um sie zu kümmer(68 Jahre),ich habe abgelehnt und auf ihr Alter und die Risiken hingewiesen...Ein Jahr später ist sie gestorben....(Sie denken weiter..?) Also... Das ist auch nur ein Gedanke,eine Idee,mein Gehirn Input...und ab und zu gebe ich einen dummen Kommentar ab.) 
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Peter, Hmm, Well, that is the thing, you know? What bdsm is, are what the letters stand for; Bondage, Dominance, Submission, Masochism, and so much more.... There are layers in BDSM. What you, or any other person make of it, or use from it, is all up to them. There use to be a thing called Code of Conduct, in the scene. Or protocol. That is, with the increase of vanilla porn players, all gone out of the window, alas Thát was the core of the scene, the whole bdsm/ d/s-m/s dynamic. That was the frame work, in wich doms and subs alike, were safe. It was known, what behaviour was accepted, expected and what not. Now? not so much. Now someone calls himself domiNant and is frankly just a bully with women issues, projecting them on his first victim., and al the others... after that, never learning one thing, about himself, his image of himself, his sexuality, nothing. The breast thumping; I am THE DOMINANT, AND YOU DO AS I SAY! yOU DONT HAVE ANY RIGHTS, kneel bitch! and more of such horror. Alas, the old school, from the gay movement, has almost got extinct... Nowadays, there are a lot of porn reinacters, who really dont have a cleu, about the back ground of having a D/s or a M/s dynamic, or know, what bdsm all can entails. Most of the time, rude vanilla men, who just try to play out their women hatered by calling themself dominant, and think they can get away with everything... Or any variation of that sort.... is my experience. I have, a long time ago, accepted that i am a slave like woman, who does love pain. I dont give a * BlieB* , what other people think of me, or of my core being; A submissive who has slave like wants and needs. Who does not fit in the play/"take on a role"?, as if they ARE dominants, scene.. I will never ever fit the vanilla world, again, as i frankly never did..... Being very unhappy and always thinking; iit must be me', that i cant get a feel of happyness in a vanilla liife, rather a feeling of getting deeper and deeper in the swamp and never getting out of it!! deadly! no oxygen!! Yes, maybe you had a chance, way back, with that woman? Now is now. Regrets hold ÿou- as in general *you* back in developing...iin growth... Machismo has a very bad name in my world, But maybe you mean something totally different, than what it means in my world? Using words, with a very big social charge meaning, you should give your own definition, with it. Other wise, things can get out of hand, real quick, within some puplic.... cathedral? I really dont get, what you mean, with that. There is a nomenclature, of BDSM, and of the core of how build a D/s or a M/s dynamic. There are certain groundrules, it is as simple as that. Like the shift of power, authority or leadership, in D/s and M/s dynamics Even, if you only do the bedroom thing... role play thing.... The temporary shift of power/ authority, leadership.. .. ofcourse, people in such a dynamic, suit it to their personal rules, wants and needs. But the basic is laid out. Otherwiise, things happen like, when you go play with such a no no porn vanilla dom..../ stupido... and the submissive end up in a hospital. consent violation.... I dont know if this makes any sense to what you wrote on my blog.... have a great day.
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Oh, and the use of the word, slave, is not in any way connected with how the whites ever threated the African, Chinese, Ambonese slaves, or any other folk the caught, in far away countries. Also, even the Greek did have slaves, but they had a reasonable 'normal' living, within the household they belonged to... They were send to school learned a trait. and so on... Like the different tribes in Africa, had their own slaves, but treated them much more human than the white folks ever did.... This is a chosen name of honor to most slaves, as far as i know.... They are only slaves to their Master. And out of their free wil. This has nothing to do, with that very bad, way too long, history of abuse, killing, maiming, of an other human being.
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I always say, when in a conversation with an "open minded" vanilla; amp;Yeah, they ALL want to become a dominant. sure! Most dont have what it takes, mentally, emotionally . Dont understand the depth of it all. Wont ever be able to carry the responsibility that comes along with it. Can get/ grow a real deep connection, with the other, to be able to really care for the other partner. Thiis counts for most submissive too, by the way.... Just the play - no responsibility, thank you! at all Till next time! Adios! 
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